Rebound
Posted Nov 25, 2013 by anonymous | 1471 views | 4 comments
When my best friend since high school died I was his wife's rebound. I was his best man at his wedding, was with them at the home birth of their first child, and was like the brother he never had. As you can understand she had a very hard time after his death and I helped her as executor of the will, and took care of her whenever she asked. We started sleeping together three months after his death and I felt guilty as hell. She said I was always there for them and she wanted to pay me back for everything I did for them in the past. We were together as a couple for 6 months until we thought we should tone it down. We stopped being physical with each other for three months and are just now starting a physical relationship with each other again. I still feel guilty.
Commented Nov 25, 2013 by anonymous
u a pussy tho
Commented Nov 25, 2013 by anonymous
Clear out the things either you must be completely physical & mentally with her or else leave the things up.
Commented Nov 25, 2013 by anonymous
If I was you're friend who passed I would want a good man like you to take care of my wife. Its normal to feel guilty though. She probably admires you because you are his best friend and usually best friends share a lot of the same quality's. The only thing I would worry about is what his family and other loved one would think of this relationship. It could imagine some might not approve. Honestly though man by the time someone passes away, if there is a afterlife they are more considered about the people they cared about that are still alive are happy. If a relationship with her makes you both happier and helps with the process of grief I don't think its wrong.
Commented Nov 25, 2013 by anonymous
one of my best friends died and now his brother has 2 kids with his lady, its probably grief driven unless you both had feelings prior to his death I'd be careful...Bry