Rape
Posted Jun 20, 2013 by anonymous | 342 views | 11 comments
I recently found out my girlfriend was raped and abused on several occasions when she was younger. We havent had sex, but we were thinking and discussing about it, but now that she has told me this i feel like i cant even touch her anymore. I dont feel disgusted but angry. Angry that someone would dare hurt or sexually touch an innocent little girl in such a way. One of the guilty was her uncle. The rest i have no clue. Shes planning on coming over this weekend and im guessing she aants to have sex because thts all shes been talking about recently but, now i dont want to. I feel like it'll bring back horrible memories for her and its just going to make me angry. Honestly i dont know what to do anymore. Part of me wants to tell her how i feel but, the other part just wants to do what ever she wants to. Im just scared....
Commented Jun 20, 2013 by anonymous
You are welcome and i think i speak for the Most of us here when i say we wish you two the best;)
Commented Jun 20, 2013 by anonymous
Thank you everyone for the advice it will really help. And for whoever said this "You need to rape her and then beat the shit out of her brutally." Needs to jump off a clif
Commented Jun 20, 2013 by anonymous
Talk honestly about her feelings and yours. Sounds like youn think she might be to fragile for sex. That may be true. Ask her. Tell her you want her to lead and then follow her wherever she takes you.
Commented Jun 20, 2013 by anonymous
meanie.
Commented Jun 20, 2013 by anonymous
My god, you're a lovely boyfriend. Make sure you hold her tight and remind her that you'll love her no matter what. You should definitely tell her what you're feeling and that you're hesitant about sex. Let her know that you'll never hurt her. Remind her that she's beautiful no matter what. It's hard for female rape victims to trust men, so you should feel very special that she trusts you this much. She loves you. Good luck.
Commented Jun 20, 2013 by anonymous
Beat the crap out her uncle and then have a serious conversation about what you guys want so you can have a healthy relationship:)
Commented Jun 20, 2013 by anonymous
I concur, sir. Women who were raped/abused at an earlier age, turn out loving the role play later on in life.
Commented Jun 20, 2013 by anonymous
Take it easy if u really love her u will support her it's nt her fault that sick piece of shit fuck her up its nt easy for her so be a man and help Ur girl out
Commented Jun 20, 2013 by anonymous
The thing is like you must support her now. Whatever happened with her was sad but this you must try to help her out with this situation.
Commented Jun 20, 2013 by anonymous
You need to rape her and then beat the shit out of her brutally.
Commented Jun 20, 2013 by anonymous
Tell her how you feel. She'll let you know when she's ready. She obviously already trusts you.