Please read this if you are the guy who broke my heart
Posted Dec 4, 2012 by anonymous | 510 views | 4 comments
You humiliated me You picked me up and dropped me like some play thing You ignored my calls You completely cut me out of your life without ever telling me why You used to show up 2 hours late and not bother to text or call and I would wait pathetically like the lap dog I was The first time you broke up with me I was sitting waiting for you and our friends as usual thinking it was a normal day, you saw me and walked past me completely ignoring me and sat inside. You then left me there until I came inside asking what was wrong You didn't pick up the phone when I tried to kill myself You never fought for me You made me feel worthless You have probably told all your friends that I'm some crazy ex when you know I'm not that person at all If you saw me in the street you would walk right by me and ignore me You loved me, I know you did, so why did you do all these things to me? All I ever did was love you. I never hurt you, I never did anything wrong, I just loved you. I just want to know why. I want an apology, I want closure, but you won't give it to me so this is me making my own. Half of me wants to tell you to go fuck yourself, and the other half wants to tell you to sort yourself out - because I saw something in you, something beautiful, but you spend most of your time hiding it. If you're reading this you'll know who it is, or atleast I hope you do. You really fucked me up. If you have a heart and you do feel bad for what you did then please some how let me know. As much as I'd love it to be a huge public apology where you declare to the whole world what you did, an email would do. I wish we could have been friends and you weren't such an ass hole. From the girl you got locked in the buttermarket with
Commented Aug 4, 2014 by anonymous
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Commented Aug 3, 2014 by anonymous
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Commented Dec 5, 2012 by anonymous
You need to tell these things to the guy face to face.
Commented Dec 4, 2012 by anonymous
Most guys that have self-image problems end up wanting to demean others. I hate to say it, but I think this is the norm. As a guy on the receiving end, I went through a series of these kind of demeaning relationships and then one day I just said, fuck it. I don't want this anymore. I'm standing on my own two feet and I don't care if I ever find a partner my entire life. It isn't worth it. The funny thing is, I met my wife-to-be almost immediately after that. It was a totally different kind of relationship without the "game." It was like I had to get beyond this "'test" before I was ready for a real relationship. It sounds like you are ready for a real relationship, but are you ready to stand on your own two feet as an empowered woman alone? When you get to this place, men looking for a play thing to bolster their egos won't be able to mess with you. There will be nothing for them to grab onto. They'll sense it. This guy was not the guy for you. He was not worthy of you. You saw the potential in him, as we all have potential, and you gave him your power and he fucked up. Now you have to take that power back for yourself and stand alone. When you can stand alone, you will be attractive to a completely different kind of guy. Believe me. For certain guys, there is nothing more attractive than an empowered woman that has her shit together and doesn't need a guy for validation. You are equals. Granted, most guys will not be your equal and you'll have to live with that. They'll be little boys playing power games. They will not be worthy of your time and you don't have to give it. In fact, you will scare them. They won't know how to deal with you. They won't have the tools Too bad for them. They'll get over it. Best of luck as you enter the next exciting phase of your life. You deserve the best.