Please help me!!!!!
Posted Mar 2, 2011 by anonymous | 139 views | 0 comments
Dear Alice, I'm a young lesbian and I masturbate a lot because of the lack of dating and sex. I live in a very small town. What and where can I meet other lesbian girls? Should I stop masturbating? lonely Dear lonely, Many gay and straight people with partners masturbate a lot, too. Masturbation is one of many ways to express yourself sexually. If it makes you feel good, why stop? As for meeting other lesbians, keep your eyes and ears open because the small size of your town doesn't mean that there aren't other gay girls -- young and old -- right in your own backyard. At the same time, Alice wonders if you live near a larger town or city that has a bigger sea of people to fish in? Will you be going away to college? If so, consider a big city school or one that has gay and lesbian groups and programming, versus a smaller school with a not-so-diverse student body. Logging on to the Queer Infoservers -- Colleges and Universities website might help you with your search for a school because it offers a list of websites of gay/lesbian/bisexual/transgender organizations at some colleges and universities. Alice offered more suggestions to another girl in a situation similar to yours. Read, Resources for Lesbians and Gay Men in New Jersey... and Everywhere Else in Alice's Relationships archives.
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