Pat - You drove me nuts with your bullying and well-intentioned rearranging of my household, such as it is. All I wanted was someone to be here after my very minor TIA which is OVER!!!! I told you over and over and over and over that I didn't need boxes rearranged, nor for you to make order of things which admittedly are stressfull to live in. The boxes will get rearranged and moved when Bob gets here. By the way, you can all keep it to yourself regarding Bob's not coming out yet. I told you he'd be here in a week and he needs to finish up the houses where he is. It's his job, OK? The ONLY thing I asked of you was to work on the claim for me because THAT was the most overwhelming problem here. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO - you had to do it your way. The computer was not the way to go because I didn't believe that it would be up and running and reliable, and therefore the claims wouldn't get finished. OK, so Friday night Arpin claim forms were finally downloaded, though they can't be saved as a file and can easily be lost. BUT, I'll do it on the computer now and hope that is not an exercise in futility. Why couldn't you just have done as I asked, if you really were here to help and to alleviate stress???????? Your middle name is Stress and your first name is Drama. I cannot stand you being around for one more minute. Why do you think 4 people in 4 different places asked me 'which one of you is older because she keeps telling you what to do'? Your delivery sucks. You may mean well, but you don't listen. It's not about what I or anyone else needs. It's about what YOU think I or anyone else needs. Well, go to hell. I meant it when I told you to go home, I couldn't take it any more, and if I had to pay you to be here, then quit telling me what to do. And by the way, your little sneak insults don't get by me. You don't get to say something snide and then insist you didn't say that. Example: When I write on my health form, which is none of your business, 'hysterrectomy', don't tell ME I didn't have a hysterrectomy because I left my uterus in the hospital and I don't have one now. Let me reciprocate in the giving advice area. How about YOU GET ON HRT IMMEDIATELY!!! That might improve your attitude and give you some patience. Lord knows you need it. Another thing, don't use my credit cards any more. If you want something, get it yourself with money that you stop giving Erin. If you want to support Erin at her age, go ahead, but as Steve says, don't get the money from us because you don't have enough. If YOU had the TIA and I had 5 weeks leave, as you said YOU did, and I could come out to just be with you for the first week after the TIA, then I would take one of those weeks, come go be with you and not have to be paid for it. OK, I feel better now. I'm going back to focusing on what I have to be grateful for, including you because I know that you are well- intentioned, but I'm REALLY grateful that you're not here any more!!!!!!!!!!!!!