the organ doners took the bones out of my mother body when we were not aware of this........she was not a organ donor she was 79 years old she was my mother ... when people are not doners it is a law that your family member can make you a doner...... do u think that is right...... that should be no one choice but yours...... that was her body no one should take that right away from her. the organ doner called in the middle of the night..just a few hours after she died...got one of her children on the phone. who which i might add was not all there because of just losing his mother '''''''''''''and also being on pain medication because of his illness.... he did not hear what they were saying to him... from that phone call they took my mothers eyes her bones in her legs her hips and her shoulders can u imagine how this could happen from a phone call,, he did not sigh for any of this this was just from a phone call .. they taped the call and called this legal..... when i view my mother in the casket her head laid on her chest because remrmber..... they took her shoulders......to me my mothers head was not attached under her skin and she was deboned like a chicken........ this is how i remember my mom now..............none of us were aware of this until it was over......... the funeral director was upset because he knew the family did not no this..... how can these people do this without talking to the family and how can they do this without a signature....... this can happen to your family unless the law get changed .....i am not against organ donation,,,i think it is wonderful that people can help save lives...but i think it is your choice of your own body and no one should make that choice for u............if my mother wanted that choice i would have respected it....... i have no respect for the people who called our family in the middle of the night when we just lost our mother ...... when u become a doner they do not even tell you they are taking bones out of the body..... is that the right thing to do..... i feel these people should only take what u let them but one they get the body they take what they want........ so your giving permission for your heart is it right for them to take parts they were told not to........... my mother has pipes in her body because of one phone call to one child who did not understand the conversation..... this can happen to your family to when your parent of love one dies....is it right that they can do this over the phone without a signature....... the law needs changed......we do need organ doners but they was this was done was wrong .......... my last memories of my mother our a nightmare now ..........so please help to let our legislatorn know what is going on is not the right..... i do believe in helping other people believe me ...... i wouln not deprive anyone of a live ,,,,,,,,,,,,,but do it so you don't harm anyone else ,,,,my life has been a nightmare since this has happened.............and no i am not mad at my brother because he is a kind person....but these people could make a big mess out of your close family........think about it....what if one of your family members answered the phone when your mom dies......