Not valued
Posted Dec 24, 2013 by anonymous | 302 views | 3 comments
I have been best friends with two people for the last several years. I am not important to them, but they are important to me. I am constantly putting so much effort in to loving and supporting them, but they only put that effort into loving and supporting each other. I continue to allow myself to be in friendships where I am not important. It makes me feel awful and empty. I want to be valued and important. I want to be someone's best friend. The person that they call first when they get good news and stay up all night talking and laughing the person that they are excited to make plans with. I want to be loved and accepted and I am so sick of it not being that way. I want to feel valued. I don't know how to tell them how much it hurts and how miserable it makes me. So instead I continue to allow them to treat me like they do and pretend like it's not killing me inside.
Commented Dec 30, 2013 by anonymous
The advice below is fucking awful. Tell your friends how they are making you feel. If they are your friend they will help you to fix this. If they aren't then you will find out the truth and be better off without them where you can make a true friend.
Commented Dec 25, 2013 by anonymous
Have you considered that they might be in a secret same sex relationship and you're a third wheel?
Commented Dec 24, 2013 by anonymous
You must either continue the relationship or say good bye for forever.