Not being honest with myself
Posted Jun 2, 2012 by anonymous | 460 views | 4 comments
I am a married man with a child and I have fallen in actual love with a married male co-worker, My wife doesn't know it and the co-worker doesn't know it, or at-least I don't think he does. Part of me wants them both to know but in reality I don't because I know it would destroy all of our lives. I wish I could just forget about him and these feeling would go away but then a part of me doesn't.
Commented Jun 4, 2012 by anonymous
It is better to change you job & shift to another company. That might help you forget him. Otherwise this may lead to serious effect on your married life.
Commented Jun 3, 2012 by anonymous
Ok, do be honest with yourself. Do you honestly want to f*ck up your marriage by pursuing this? Consider carefully.
Commented Jun 3, 2012 by anonymous
Does sexual attraction form part of this 'in love' feeling? Ifit does, there's a good chance you're at least bi sexual. And it's unlikely to go away. You need to be honest with your wife about this. Because at some point, you're going to want to experiment. which is only natural. If there's no sexual attraction, you're not bi but obviously really need some quality male companionship. It's called bro-mance these days and every guy should have one. Either way, don't tell the co-worker. it's a pretty safe bet he isn't interested.
Commented Jun 3, 2012 by anonymous
Not being fair to your family.