No sex from partner in 7months.
Posted Nov 1, 2011 by anonymous | 496 views | 6 comments
So my husband has been having flaccid problems. It's gotten hard before but losses its erection. He broke out in a rash which seemed a heat rash , allergy to soap or yeast infections I do not have any of these. He says that his penis feels irritated and it causes him to loose an erection. This has been for about a year. Its a long story which involves pushing him to make an appointment to the Doctor me finding Doctors for him, me talking to him about the lack of sex in my life. Blah Blah. So 7months ago I was going to a wedding far away and he couldn't come because of work , so I told him i want sex before I go. So he gave me oral sex and some cock but it didn't last long it went Flaccid. So for more than a year i talk to him everyday about how its not fair, to please go see a Doctor to see what he has. It makes me so sad. He says he loves me and tells me not to leave him. I want to "cheat" I say cheat but Ive told hubby i want to separate. I told him countless of times I'm not happy about the lack of sex. Like why cant he finger me and go oral? I say , he says okay but never does. Why would he plead with me not to divorce him. I think I waited long enough! He is healthy other wise so there is o excuse. Ive gone oral on him for years and 15-20 mins If needed and he loved it. I think he is scared of the Doctor. I have a guy friend who'd fuck me happy but I dont want to cheat.
Commented Jan 30, 2012 by anonymous
He doesnt care about you enough to make a doctors appointment??? He doesnt care about your needs. Plain & Simple, get out!!! 51% chance he is getting it elsewhere too.
Commented Jan 26, 2012 by anonymous
Im in the exact situation! It's like oh so if my vagina was sown shut how would you feel? Do you men know how humiliating it is to try and stuff a loose penis inside us??? Why can't men go to the doctor?? I'm tiers of fucking myself! I'm in my thirties not sixty!
Commented Nov 3, 2011 by anonymous
Marriage is more than sex, and true love can overcome it. I think that its time you evaluate what your marriage is all about, and get back to what matters besides just getting off. Sex is a stupid reason to marry, and a person who commits adultery because they just can't handle it is guilty. God has a way for you. Seek him, and have enough resolve to do the right thing to a man you love.
Commented Nov 3, 2011 by anonymous
ur not alone! wtf is wrong with all these damn men anymore??? do they ALL suffer from 'ED'???????
Commented Nov 1, 2011 by anonymous
Women don't understand how humiliating it is for a man to have ED. Of course the doctor is the correct answer but threatening him with leaving and trying to force him to take care of you is almost certainly making you 'the enemy' in his mind. At the very least, it's making sex an ordeal for him.
Commented Nov 1, 2011 by anonymous
Get someone to help you get his ass to a doctor SOON. This is not fair to either of you. Just get it done.....soon...so you both can have a normal life.