MY SON WAS MARRIED TO A 40 YEAR OLD WOMEN HE IS 20 .THIS WOMEN ABUSED HIM HE DID NOT WANT TO GO TO THE POLICE ,BECAUSE LIKE YOU SAID THEY DON'T BELIEVE MEN CAN BE ABUSED. THIS ALL STARTED IN AUG 2006 I WENT AND PICKED UP MY SON HE HAD HAND PRINTS ON HIS FACE FINGERNAIL MARKS IN HIS NECK AND 7 OTHER PEOPLE SEEN HIS MARKS . HIS WIFE, WHEN I GOT THERE WAS LAUGHING AND SITTING IN A CHAIR HAD NO MARKS ON HER AND SAID NOTHING ABOUT HIM ABUSING HER. HOW EVER 2 1/2 MONTHS LATER SHE FILED A COMPLAINT AND HAD HIM ARRESTED FOR ABUSE .WE ARE SELF REPORTED HER AS THE ABUSER AND NOTHING HAPPENED ,AND WE EVEN HAVE TONS OF EMAILS FROM HER SAYING SHE WAS SORRY FOR SLAPPING HIM BUT HE CALLED HER A NAME AND IF SHE DID NOT HAVE SUCH CONTROL SHE COULD OF KILLED HIM THAT NIGHT. POLICE WAS GIVEN THESE EMAILS ALONG WITH ALL HER SEXUAL EMAILS THAT SHE WROTE TO HIM THE DAYS AFTER THE ALEGED ABUSE .WHEN MY SON REFUSED TO GO BACK TO HER IS WHEN THIS ALL STARTED,HE HAD THE ELECTRIC TURNED OFF AFTER HE GAVE HER A MONTH TO PUT IT IN HER OWN NAME, SHE WENT DOWN AND FILED A RO .SO SHE COULD GET HELP FROM THE WOMENS CRISIS CENTER,HE FILED FOR DIVORCE SHE WENT DOWN AND SIGNED A COMPLAINT AND HE WAS ARRESTED.I EVEN SPOKE TO HER PARNETS AND BROTHER AND SISTER AND THEY STATED THIS IS THE WAY SHE DOES THINGS BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T WANT TO WORK .AND THEY EVEN STATED THAT SHE ABUSED HER OWN MOTHER,AND THAT SHE TAUGHT HER OWN CHILDREN HOW TO ACT SO THEY COULD BE ON SSI. WHY IS IT NOBODY SEEMS TO CARE WHAT THIS WOMEN DOES. OH YES SHE EVEN HAS A BENCH WARRANT IN BELLINGHAM FOR GIVING FALSE REPORT TO AN OFFICER,CLAMING HER EX HUSBAND STOLE HER CAR TRING TO GET HIM ARRESTED. HOW DO YOU GET HELP WHEN NOBODY CARES ABOUT A MAN BEING ABUSED??? WHAT CAN I DO TO HELP THE MEN OF TILLAMOOK ? WHY IS IT EVERYTHING IS NAMED WOMENS CRISIS CENTERS ? PLEASE ANY INFO ON HOW WE CAN HELP THE MEN OUT THERE ?