If he did I probably wasn't there but thank you I hope to be getting our relationship back soon

Did your Dad ever confront the room mate over this? If it was me I would have and I would have made sure there were witnesses there to hear him splutter and stammer his bulls--t excuse. And in do hope you and your Dad can have a good relationship, best of luck to you both

She did try to tell them all and no one would believe her.

That's interesting but yes I took almost a year of therapy (once a week) and no memories came up the polygraph test is a great idea though, thank you!!

Are you really that disgusting and immature? No. We never "fucked" or ever will that's my father you pervert.

I've never been raped just the roommate thought I was being raped by my dad when I wasnt

I never went to therapy over what happened to me, but I've known a few people it's worked for. If the therapist is on the up and up, they don't lead you to think a certain way. They just allow you focus on what it is you're trying to establish. If it happened, then it did. If it didn't, that's even better. But talking to someone who's neutral in the matter may help you to at least learn who to approach a conversation with your family.

I think that's the problem with therapy. For example you think you have repressed memories and your therapist helped you unblock them. But what if these memories aren't really you only came up with them becuz being in a impressionable state?

ask him to fuck you to see if it brings up any memories

Firat of all, you have nothing to be ashamed of. Either you were coersed into believing somwthing that wasn't true, or you really were raped and blocked out the memory because it was just too painful to remember. I was assaulted by a memeber of my family when I was about six, but didn't have any memory of it until I was in my early 20's. Have you seeked any kind of therapy for this? I would honestly try some kind of hypnotherapy and try to figure out the truth...maybe even contact the so called friend that accused your father. But I don't think it's a bad thing to try and reconnect with your father since he reached out to you. Try and get some answers. Maybe even ask him if he's willing to take a polygraph test.

Its good that you didn't put a innocent man in jail. But my advice would be to admit to your family that your father didn't rape you. Although its no accuse, you were young and almost pressured and made to believe he raped you.

are you gonna fuck him again?

tell everyone you were mistaken. a kid that young with everyone pushing I wouldnt call it a lie. and you shouldnt feel bad. you were coeresed. start your relationship up. and tell everyone that you were mistaken and your visiting him so they at least know.

It much easier said than done:/ I might do it before I graduate

If your dad didn't rape you than you want find a way to get him in your life but was this the roommate who raped you? This is so confusing to understand and of course if your dad did rape you, he needs to man up and tell the truth i apologize on my part if your dad is a innocent man ,seriously this is confusing

Ya I really want to but my family is going to be really mad at me, because my sisters boyfriend opened up to me about also getting raped and

No not that I know of

If he asked you why dont you talk to him, then he wants you in his life, he made his first step in getting back to you. So yes make that step, and tell everyone that you lied. You need to clear his name, explain that that mathafucka friend that told you mom a lie and how others influenced you at your age, you made judgement that you regret about. Remember if you dont do it now, you will regret it in the future. Unless of course your dad is really a rapist. Fuck others, you should worry about you being faithful to yourself, and when you look in the mirror you know you did the right thing and be proud of yourself

Did he do any time in jail becuz of this?

Serious answers only please