Neglect of Dying Sister
Posted Apr 1, 2013 by anonymous | 337 views | 7 comments
My older sister has been fighting a life-threatening, long-term, chronic illness for the last 7 years and so in order to selfishly keep myself "positive" and escape hearing about how tough she has it, I avoid her company, going to lengths like leaving the house 2 house earlier than I actually have to just so that I don't have to take the bus with her. I know that she needs but it's so easy to get wrapped up in her pain.
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Commented Apr 2, 2013 by anonymous
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Commented Apr 2, 2013 by anonymous
I have a similar situation and you do need to both be there for her and give yourself breaks, alone time. It's tough for both of you, no doubt about it. But when she's gone, you want to make sure you were there for her when she actually needed it and can go on without guilt. But you also need to care of yourself, too, in the mean time. It's a difficult balancing act. I know it's hard, but sometimes when she's expressing her pain, a simple hug can make all the difference in the world until the moment passes.
Commented Apr 2, 2013 by anonymous
You must take care of her.
Commented Apr 1, 2013 by anonymous
I so understand what you are saying. My mother is 92 and I take care of her. She really seems to go out of her way sometimes to be so irritating and demand all of my attention.