I will be married for less than 2 years and I have had sex with my husband less than 10 times. He has gained weight and cant exercise to keep weight off due to a sports injury he suffered a month after we got married. Not only are we not having sex I can't remember the last time we shared a kiss. We don't sleep in the same bedroom because he uses every excuse in the book to not sleep with me; the bed is high, you wake up to early, I cough a lot and don't want to wake you. I am not concerned about him having affair, because he lives in front of the TV, along with his shoes, dirt and socks and empty plate and bowls that he eat out of and to lazy to walk to the kitchen. On top of all that, I am not physically attracted to him. I know he is unhappy in his job and the city we live (I told him I would support the decision he if would like to move) but he rarely dress nice and he rarely shaves. Also did I mention the gas? He passes gas so much I can smell the gas along with the air freshener all the way upstairs. He also burps more than normal. All this adds up to is me being disgusted by him, a loveless marriage and makes me wonder why did I marry him. I also think he is a poor example of a business owner and "leader". He is running the family business and he lays in bed until close to 8am and arrives to work at least 2 hours after everyone else. He does just enough to get by. I know he is unhappy and I told him we can move but he is not doing anything about that. I think it's because he's to lazy to do something. It seems he is just waiting around for something magical to happen; lottery or someone is going to call him with another job without looking or possibly going back to school for training. Finding the good in him is harder and harder to come by. Knowing what I know now, I would laugh in his face if he proposed to me.