My life's a mess
Posted May 30, 2013 by anonymous | 282 views | 10 comments
Okay, so I'm 17 and a guy right. I fell in love with this girl who was my best friend for 7 years prior to us going out. Anyway to cut a story short she cheated on me with my best friend (and he was like a brother to me). Anyway all that's done with but I can't for the life of me seem to get back out there. I get really shy around girls and even make things harder for myself. I talk way too much but I always get awkward with silences thinking 'shit, have I made the right impression' etc etc. All my male (and some female) mates tell me that relationships are crap and that dating is stupid and that I should just go for sex (as I'm still a virgin) but honestly while I'm not looking for love (I'm young, I've got years to find that) I wouldn't mind a relationship. Also my social life sucks epically, I talk too much which tends to mean people can dislike me, I can be hyper (but that's because making people laugh usually makes them like me) but yeah, I've NEVER been to a part, NEVER been to a club (there's clubs that do events for under 18's) and NEVER done anything beyond a kiss. I think it's wrong to use a girl and I always try to act like a gentleman but it ends up me being played for the fool before we've even started dating, like on girl had a boyfriend when we went on a little date so yeah that was fucked. Can someone please give me advice, I'm getting to the stage where I'm desperate, I'm desperate for a normal social life, I mean I keep up to date with exams and college work and all that but my social and love life are a wreck. Any help? I'm 17, male and from the UK
Commented May 31, 2013 by anonymous
I hear what all of you are saying, I will just stop being so nice it's done me no favors at all
Commented May 30, 2013 by anonymous
You're 17 and you have plenty of time to explore your life and get to know people. Try to be more socially active with your close friends. Start from there. Go out more to places. Find activities that involved people that you can do. Make small talk to people around you. Being a gentleman "hermit" that's not known to the world, will never get hitch. You don't talk or show your goodness to people, how do you think people will ever respond?
Commented May 30, 2013 by anonymous
Listen, asshole, girls want a bad boy who will rough them up, pimp them out to their friends to fuck and generally treat them like shit. Start abusing these chicks and they'll love it.
Commented May 30, 2013 by anonymous
Oh also, am I too nice to girls? A lot of my 'friends' tell me I am but I can't help it, I don't like the idea of treating a girl wrong it just seems dishonest to me. I compliment girls, I treat them nice, I act the proper gentleman but I either get friendzoned or it get's thrown back in my face. I do have friends but as mentioned earlier most of them leave me out of things only two (a girl from school and a guy from college) include me in things
Commented May 30, 2013 by anonymous
what's tagged? + I've found some friends at college and I had some at school except at school they were friends with me because I made them laugh however that was it. And at college it's similar, I don't get invited to parties or anything, I mean a big group of my friends are going camping for two of my friends birthday yet I wasn't invited
Commented May 30, 2013 by anonymous
What do you mean by this?
Commented May 30, 2013 by anonymous
Well see that's the path I'm following, I'm a dancer and I'm passionate about pursuing it thanks mate, I'll look forward to the future
Commented May 30, 2013 by anonymous
Drink beer and pursue a career as a entertainer. I did that I focused on writing rap music I have a knack for it. I use to be a outcast. After getting really good at rapping I decided to perform. I've made a lot of friends and fans that way. I use to not be good with women either. Now I can't keep them off of me. I'm 23. By the time your my age you shouldn't have a issue. Just follow your talents man.
Commented May 30, 2013 by anonymous
Awh, internet hun. Try tagged, friends aren't hard to find.
Commented May 30, 2013 by anonymous
Why the hell is it you boys live in the UK? Seriously.