As if I don't have anything better to do, and believe me, I do, I went back and read all the posts causing the 'wars' on here. I did it OBJECTIVELY (a word most don't seem to know on here) in having no interest in taking either side of the parties involved. First off...when two people are on a page together it is POLITE (another word most people don't seem to know on here) to allow them to post in peace. As far as this not being the proper forum for that...this is a CONFESSIONAL site too and they have the right to CONFESS what ever they want to one another!!!!! GOT THAT??? Grow up and hit the NEXT button!!! However, at the same time, if you are expecting no one to be allowed to post on your pages, NOT! This is a PUBLIC site. GOT THAT??? DEAL WITH IT. But, when you follow posters from page to page to harrass them that is STALKING! You are endangering yourself to be accountable for legal action to be taken against you. As a well accomplished writer I can tell you that copying and pasting anything from this site is infringement of COPYWRITE LAWS and is punishable accordingly! I'm an AARP aged pacifist, but as an accomplished writer, my words are my 'wares' and products and as such I would not hesitate to prosecute anyone who copies or pastes my COPYWRITE protected words on here, nor hesitate to read the riot act to anyone who does it to someone else on here!!! I will also suggest to the person being wronged to take action (as I did). As for the petty war(s)going on that make it impossible for the rest of us to have peace and continue to have fun with everyone....First off, these posts are not spoken comments wherein the poster's tone and intentions can be easily recognized. As written posts it's easy to misread what someone is actually saying especially if you don't pay attention to where the periods are in the poster's sentences and/or they don't provide them to better understand what they are really saying. Starting backwards towards the one poster it appears that really started all this I will start with the last wrongful conviction on here by BUBBLES. BUBBLES sweetheart I love you for being a peace keeper, and I'm sorry, but within the heat of everything going on last night you didn't notice the PERIOD separating Vic's sentences when you got upset and accused Vic of saying that YOU (BUBBLES) said ROCKY wants to keep this going. That is NOT what Vic said!!! I read her post. You told Vic she should keep you out of it and if she didn't like what was going on to basically skip ahead. She said I AGREE BUBBLES (with what you said) and then there was a PERIOD. Vic's NEW sentence was HER feelings that ROCKY wasn't taking the advice you just gave HER by leaving HER alone and therefore apparently wanted to keep this going. Shoe is on the other foot now BUBBLES in telling Vic she needed to apologize. I think you are the better person on here to admit you misread Vic's post and apologize, but I could be wrong. As for ROCKY, I'm kind of ashamed of you. Vic has NEVER been anything but good to you from what I have seen before you READ HER THE RIOT ACT on something that wasn't your fight and hadn't been solved yet as to who was in the wrong between Vic and Sweetpea. It was THEIR fight and no call for you to jump on Vic. I have seen Vic helping you and being nice to YOU! One night she couldn't talk much to me because she was trying to help you learn email I believe it was??? For you to call her out in a complaint the way you did after the way she has always treated you was narrow minded of you, don't you think??? And to accuse VIC of multiple personalities is the kettle calling the pot black don't you think??? Are YOU much of a friend to someone who had been good to you as Vic has always been?? Now we take this all the way back to sweetpea where the 'wars' always seem to appear to eminate from! Sweepea from what I have read of your public posts to the complainers and confessionals you are a good person with good intentions towards people, BUT.... You accuse VIC of playing the 'damsel in distress'???? It would appear from what I have read that you have that title sowed up. And I didn't even bother to go back so far as to read what client was talking about. From what I have witnessed between Sweetpea with Vic it appears that if you get your panties in a twist over what someone says on here YOU appear to play the distressed damsel. It appears that you invoke (and it also appears you sadly get) everyone to come running with stones to throw at the poster you are having a tiff with because of something they posted that you feel was out of line (as client claims) or supposedly being directed at you as you claimed with Vic and when that poster fights back in their defense you are suddenly the damsel in distress. I am not a stone thrower for ANYONE. I look at the situation and make my own decision as to who I feel is in the wrong! Believe me I saw that long olive branch post sweetpea APPEARED to hand to Vic which was full of thorns! You basically said you were willing to get past this and move on AS LONG AS Vic understood you still think she meant what she said to be directed at YOU so if Vic fought back you would appear to be the damsel in distress for trying to hand out an olive branch and having it thrown back at you. Vic fought back to clear herself of wrong doing (you would have to have survived the type of spousal abuse that Vic and I have suffered to understand why Vic won't take any more abuse from ANYONE)because this 'olive branch' post also gave the initial of the person Vic was trying to keep secret (according to client it wouldn't be long before sweetpea posted the whole name too if Vic continued to try to clear herself against Sweetpea and client did say they were sorry for getting Vic pulled into client's war with Sweetpea and client is the dog on here too for going against sweetpea???) and the 'war' began which should have remained between Vic and sweetpea. They had the option of ignoring each other from now on until ROCKY placed himself in the middle of it. And from what I have seen on here, it won't be long before others come to throw stones.... From what I can tell it appears that the reason Sweetpea accused Vic of playing the damsel in distress in the first place is because she was miffed??? jealous??? that Vic had made a post to Turbo on one of their pages together about the person she was trying to keep secret and thus sweetpea gave the initial of that person in her supposed olive branch post. From what I have read so far I have no reason to doubt (being myself bipolar) why Vic would ask sweetpea if maybe she was bipolar (not well and not responsible for her actions) because her actions appeared to suggest it by being first being paranoid about something that wasn't even said directly to her by Vic and then saying the doing the things she did to Vic following that. If you read between the lines of sweetpea's posts you appear to have a person who tries to make it look as though they are saying something positive, yet they are back biting the poster between the lines as with the olive branch post by sweetpea to Vic the same as client was saying people should have read between the lines when the war started with client that has made it impossible for this person to post on here since. It would appear that if you disagree with sweetpea or her lifestyle and you post your own opinions as she does to you and/or you don't allow her to say what she feels about you and keep your mouth shut about it then you risk pulling the rest of the site's posters down around you. I kinda believe client that people on here are liars if they say they don't use the names of sam/zak and whoever to keep the wars going and make it impossible for client to post on here. I had to change my name for personal resons and I was immediately attacked for being sam...so I know it goes on here. Some of us (myself) come on this sight to actually try to help people out with our comments and suggestions to complainers and confessionals. If we can make friends and have a few laughs at the same time it's a bonus. But, there is always one person on every sight that has to spoil it for everyone. Since some people on here are so quick to throw stones and they ought to slow down and read for themselves without BIAS what is really going on and make sure they are throwing stones at the right person or for the right reasons. But, you won't be throwing any stones at me....I am sooooooooooooooo out of here. Raw Complaints is losing someone who was really trying to be a help to posters!!!! Let the children play. I don't have time for the nonsense.... This is one time you can throw your stones without a fight back because I won't be here to listen! I think THAT in itself will bug you MORE! STANNO AND CAROLYN I hope you two have a great time together for a long time to come. Wish you all the BEST. It was a pleasure to have known you!