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Posted Mar 2, 2011 by anonymous | 255 views | 4 comments
My husband fathered a child during an affair 16 years ago and he wanted nothing more to do with her or the child and he agreed to pay child support. We knew that one day his child might want to find him. Two years ago it happened. He met his daughter and started taking her and her mother out to lunch and buying his daughter things.Some days there are four or more calls to the mother on his mobile phone and multiple received calls from her. He claims he needs to talk to her about their daughter. When I received an anonymous letter saying he was having an affair with the mother, he went berserk. Each time I ask to meet his daughter he says it is too soon for her. He knows I am unhappy but he is content as long as nobody rocks the boat. I've decided to hire a private investigator. If I find that he is having an affair again, I will leave him. My husband nor any of my family know my plan. I'm sorry Ray that I was never able to bear your children.
Commented Apr 23, 2011 by anonymous
I agree compleatly. Honestly- I love that you hired an investigator. I really do. I think its amazing how much you care and what your willing to find out. He wont let you meet this child? After it was born 16 fricken years ago? Hmm .. Weird. Are there alot of things going on with him at work or happening with family? Has he been acting weird since you suspected the affair?
Commented Apr 17, 2011 by anonymous
Well, do it I guess. Sorry you are dealing with this, but if he IS cheating on you screw him as hard as you can in court.
Commented Apr 12, 2011 by anonymous
You're doing the right thing for yourself. Anyone who stays in a relationship that lacks trust is never truly happy. Get the proof you need first before you jump the gun. It could just be that he's been overwhelmed by this new development in his life however, you should be involved. He does need to take your feelings into consideration.
Commented Apr 12, 2011 by NotALecter
It must be double painful not to have had a child with your husband. Now that the gyp is going back to his old life, I hope it's not too late for you to start afresh. I think you've made a good decision here. If the private eye can provide evidence for his infidelity, I don't think you should wait around to be kicked out. Leave gracefully and hope for the best.