My girlfriend
Posted Aug 17, 2013 by anonymous | 319 views | 0 comments
Okay, so basically without getting into too much detail, I've broken up with my girlfriend and gotten back together with her about 6 times. Sounds really immature, I know. She's just always been really clingy and I'm not like that at all. We've always had issues along the lines of her not feeling like the emotion she's putting out are being reciprocated. Now, her father died when she was about 14, so I rule some of her need to constantly be coddled and loved on out to dependency issues she may have from that traumatic event in her life. It's just that regardless of what the excuses I make for her being like that are, I really don't think I should have to fucking deal with all of it. Like, yeah, I date her and I should accept her for who she is. I'm just not fucking clingy like that and I feel like some sort of compromise should be made. I don't mind showing affection, but an over abundance of it just makes me sick. The relationship isn't all about her nor is it all about me so why couldn't we just meet in the middle, you know? I'm just starting to near that point in the relationship that we always seem to reach where I'm just fed up with all this lovey dovey shit and her getting mad at me for not doing it. I've been contemplating new love interests and I just feel horrible because if I were to break up with her again, we'd both just look so stupid for doing this AGAIN. I just need to know that this is something I can fix somehow without having to leave her again. I really don't want to but I just can't see myself happy with this forever.
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