've been going to the same doctor since I was about 16 (I'm 32 now). I stopped going to her when she moved out of state to practice in another state, but about 3 years ago, she came back to the state I'm in, and her practice is only 15 minutes away from my house. She is the doctor that diagnosed my depression, so I feel comfortable going to her and her treatment helped keep my depression under control. She's always been very friendly during all of my office visits, which I thought was just the way that she is towards patients (and isn't a bad thing; I'd rather go to a friendly doctor than a cold one). However, I was in her office today for a consultation about my medication (it's not working like it should). She was asking about how I was feeling, whether I had joint pain or physical symptoms like fatigue, etc, when out of nowhere she said, "I always wished you were single, but your married and I'm married so there's nothing we can do about that". I don't know what the reaction on my face was, but it completely caught me off guard and I was shocked that she said that to me. She's attractive but I'm married. I didn't respond to what she said and we started talking about my follow up visit. The question is, what do I do? Do I see another doctor instead? I admit it was a great self esteem boost to hear that (what guy doesn't enjoy hearing a compliment from a woman), but if she is that forward with her feelings about me, I'm honestly not sure what to expect the next time I go into that office. To top it off, I ran into a guy that worked for her practice a couple of years ago, and he said that she was very sexually forward with him, and wound up screwing around with him (allegedly her husband found out according to him) which I just thought was a bunch of BS from a guy who was drunk at a friends New Years Eve party. Actually after typing that sentence I think I just answered my own question, but this whole situation is a mindfuck. Am I just thinking too much into things or do I take this as a red flag and find another doctor?