My complicated, screwed up life
Posted Sep 22, 2013 by anonymous | 19412 views | 5 comments
Not sure where to start this , and it will be quite a read. Me and my husband have been married for several years. In the very beginning of our relationship, he had to seek some help for his anger due to the fact he was verbally, and sometimes physically abusive ( he never "hit" me, but has shoved me a few times, got in my face and "told me what I was going to do") It got to the point of when we were first together, I was young and still living at home, he would call me at the same time everyday after school and would be pissed if I didn't answer and would yell at my younger brother/sisters as to my whereabouts. Just very possessive to the point of it being unnecessary I ended up ending the relationship after 3 years and going off to college in another town Well, he ended up going to college as well and told me that he had changed so much And I believed this as well. We got married about after 5 months of dating and have now been married for several years. Problem is, he has gotten progressively worse over the years, to the point of where its ridiculous. Now he does not even let me hardly leave the house unless its to go to the store and come right back, with a receipt And constantly stands over my shoulder to see who I'm talking to. He also cuts me down a lot and tells me how ignorant I am, and curses at me in front of our young son. I just don't know what to do here. I do not want a divorce but I am miserable And at my wits end I also offered to go to marriage counseling, however; he informed me that we didn't have problems. Does anyone have any advise?
Commented Sep 22, 2013 by anonymous
chills with that she has a son and she still has to take care of him
Commented Sep 22, 2013 by anonymous
You know what you need to do. Divorce him. If you can't manage that, drug him one night and then kill him in his sleep.
Commented Sep 22, 2013 by anonymous
He is abusive and I think you should get out, especially if he is not willing to change. I am sorry you are going through this, but I think you and your son deserve better.
Commented Sep 22, 2013 by anonymous
it sounds as if he is becoming increasingly abusive. Listen sweetie, its not going to get better with him. He is not going to change, he says you dont have problems and he insists he has changed but obviously he has not. I was in a terribly abusive relationship with a possessive, jealous, cheating, lying abuser for many years. he never got any better, he got so much worse over the years I was terrified he was going to kill me if I didnt get away from him. Please think of your child! my children are now teenagers but they are so scarred and angry about their father that they have a terrible time having normal relationships. you are worth so much more than what he is giving you and so is your son! you are going to have to stand up to him and put yourself and your child first! please get away from him!! i will be glad to give you my email address if you need someone to talk to!
Commented Sep 22, 2013 by anonymous
well first of all don't just think it's affecting you, it's also affecting your son .you should really consider a divorce, my aunt had a similar situation and after 25 years of marriage she finally got divorced and is now living a peaceful life with her children.there is so much help you can receive but the only thing is that you are the one that decides if you want the help or not...stay strong