Mistakes
Posted May 22, 2011 by anonymous | 489 views | 2 comments
The past two and a half years have been rough. As a teen dad, I've had to make adjustments in my life quickly to make sure that I got things together for my little one. For nearly the last two years it's been just me and him and it's been a rough time with dating and everything else. More lately, I've been dating a little more because I've been feeling more comfortable, but with the way that I was treated in my relationship with my son's mother I started acting abnormally. Not only with trust issues, but with sex in general. With being a little more lonely and being nervous to take certain steps with people, on three occasions now I've gotten escorts, and have had a one night stand. While I've admitted to the one night stand before, the escorts are something I can't get my head around and end up regretting almost immediately to the point now where it's all I think about and how hard it is to tell someone. That being said, I'm on the brink of what could be a more serious relationship, and I'm at a point now where I don't know if that's something that I tell the person or not. It hadn't been done through cheating, but it's a series of failures I've made that I don't know how I'm supposed to get over and I feel have tarnished me.
Commented May 23, 2011 by anonymous
I agree with this poster. Everyone has secrets from their past and most people don't often volunteer that information. If she asks, then you should be honest but otherwise, why bring it up? The escorts you've been with are not part of your life now. You recognize your past failures, all you can do is work on not repeating them. Remember, not all women are like your ex. Do not bring the baggage from that relationship into a new one. You'll only destroy yourself and what could turn out to be a good relationship.
Commented May 23, 2011 by anonymous
hey, dont worry man, escorts are fine, at least you have a few moments of relaxing and nice time. Did you know that in a lot of cultures escorts are a must for married man ?