Misleading a nice guy
Posted May 20, 2013 by anonymous | 264 views | 5 comments
I feel I'm misleading a very nice guy. He is super sweet, fun, and financially stable. I find him attractive in the face but not attracted to his body. We have been on 4 dates and I kissed him on the lips once. That is as far as it has gone and as far as I want to go. I do not want to hurt his feelings but not sure how to let him down easy.
Commented May 21, 2013 by anonymous
This is a very good point.
Commented May 21, 2013 by anonymous
Just have sex with him already. You can't judge a book by its cover you have to flip through the pages and see if its interesting. He may give you the best sex of your life but you wouldn't know if you dont give him a chance.
Commented May 20, 2013 by anonymous
What city and state because that determines my answers on how to handle it
Commented May 20, 2013 by anonymous
you're basically just leading him on and since you allowed kissing to go on and he seems like a nice guy which means you're basically gonna hurt him. even if he says he's okau, the friendship between you two won't be the same.
Commented May 20, 2013 by anonymous
As someone who's been in similar situations, I can say that honesty is the best policy. Just flat-out tell him how you feel. But do it in person, face-to-face. Anything less will seem like you don't respect him at all.