Military Cheating
Posted Jun 3, 2013 by anonymous | 381 views | 5 comments
My husband was deployed for 6 months on his first deployment and I started hanging out with a friend from my job. After a few times going out with him, we slept together. It wasnt what I wanted, but we were drunk ect. I started to develop actual feelings for him. I don't think he has the same for me. He told me he wanted to be friends with benifits. I decided that that was t a good idea because I am married and I love my husband. Now I can stop thinking about this other guy. I quit my job and I never see him other than text messages or phone calls. All I can think about is him, my husband even came back from his deployment and it's not the same. I know that this guy and I could never work out, he has a crappy job, no car, legal troubles, ect. I just don't know how to stop caring for somone like this. Does it mean I don't love my husband anymore if I can have love for somone else?
Commented Jul 28, 2013 by anonymous
I was in the Army I return home from a deployment to find out that my wife of 6 years has slept with almost everyone from my battalion, and we have 3 kids together. I found out from videos that the guys were showing each other. She even got pregnant, and had an abortion, she also gave me herpies, I can't trust most female now.
Commented Jun 6, 2013 by anonymous
No, it does not mean you don't love your husband. What you are feeling is natural. You just need more time with your husband. How could you develop closeness with someone whom you rarely see. You developed feelings to your coworker because he was often there with you than your husband but if it was reversed, you would be developing the closeness with your husband.
Commented Jun 4, 2013 by anonymous
You are a selfish whore and deserve to die alone and unloved.
Commented Jun 3, 2013 by anonymous
it means that you don't love your husband because you can no loving never stop loving someone. And be truthful to your husband you at least owe him that. And no matter how bad economically and legally the other guy is you have deep feelings for him and you would probably be happier with him. and your husband would be happier with someone else.
Commented Jun 3, 2013 by anonymous
talk too me boo