Suck it up and learn to enjoy it!

so you banged her?

thanks for your help everyone i just gave in and problem solved she's starting to act like her normal self again the hittings more playful now and we've been connecting more thanks for all the advice although it feels kinda weird right now having to make a change so fast and do these things to make sure she's happy.

yeah. with adulthood comes sex. you can try to keep it in the friend zone but you will have to suffer watching other guys take advantage.. and the fact that your good friends already means you can have a good relationship. most people start dating because of sex. but you have the most important part. you very well might end up having kids and getting married. the best way to go forward is to sit her down and just be ppen and honest. tell her you like her but it makes you uncomfy. I would start by asking straight forward if she likes you as more than friends. then after you talk and your both open if its not meant to be then fuck.it. if you do hook up stay open about sex as well. if your totaly comfortable youcan explore your kinky sides and you will never get bored with each other

first i would like to say i'm sorry you lost your good friend to a jerk and second i understand that your right she's growing up and i need to mature with her if i don't want to lose her thank you for the info.

your right i did give her slight permission to do it so i caused it and your also right about me not wanting her to be used by other guys i guess i should just man up atleast i know she won't be used by other guys as a toy i just need to try a few more things of that fails then i won't hesitate to take responsibility for my actons.

there has to be some other way to get out this other then sex maybe i'm just not seeing it but if it does come to it then maybe i do have to give in and just accept it.

I had a best friend girl a long time ago.. I refused her advances and now she has a kid with some asshole. I regret it to this day.. she is growing up. and if you dont mature with her you will find yourself alone and left in the dust

also I guessed it.. you said itall started on that day.. your reply was a joke to ease tension and not a flat out no.. so you gave her partoal permission. she has proba ly been bottling up her desires het whole life because thats how society makes girls act.. if you dont move further with her respectfully than she may seek sex from other guys.. and most will just use her and treat her poorly. if you dont want to see her innocence destroyed buy abusive horny guys you gotta grow up..

you opened pandoras box. its probably to that point where if you keep shooting her down she might get a complex that shes unwanted. to put it in a better way... if she goes and gets a asshole bf and fucks him would you be jelouse? if yes than grow up and see if the relationship will work. sometimes we meet people that we lime so much that we either need to have them with us or not at all. if you get a gf she might be so heartbroken tban even your friendship wont recover. life gets complicated as we get older. men and women can rarely be friends without sexual tension. you need to let her play with your dick or it will never end

i don't really have any childhood trauma or any personality problems and i don't plan on giving into masochism.

no i'm not gay and i would not enjoy that sorry to disappoint you.

Let go and give into your desires it's actually a very natural thing to be masochistic, but keep in mind it might reflect childhood trauma or deeply seated personality problems.

I bet you like a big black cock in your ass too. Fucking queer

she still keeps at it whenever i'm around her but now she's trying to do sexual things anywhere we are i tried to stop hanging out with her privately so i started taking her to public places but now that just made things worse since she does not seem to care where we are its embarrassing adults are always staring and laughing while i'm trying to restrain her and keep her off me its hopeless.

but i'v known her for so long and she's never acted like this until that day and i know i'm not the most innocent person on earth but i can't bring my self to see her in that kind of light as some kind of sex fiend she looks to pure and i know i keep saying this but its only because its true and theres no way i'm saying anything to her that has sex in it i want this to get better not worse thanks though your post did give me a few laughs about how teen girs want sex more then boys.

she is deffinatly doing it to get as close as she can.. since you joked it was ok.. if she keeps doing it it is because she want you pretty bad.

innocence is a lie. when I was ypur age I wishsomeone told me. but ill tell you. girls want to have sex AS much as guys want to. this is no joke. it seems at this point your the only one pretending innocence. again they want it asmuch as any guy usually. so using labels is a waste of your time. a few spankings is way short of masochism. so dont stress over the label. your nowhere near handcuffs and whips. she is most likely doing it to cop a feel. and somehow you both silentlyagreed its ok an so she keeps toing it. next time she grabs it act like your jokeing and tell her to just grab it for real. btw this is a serious answer.

first i don't want to be a masochist and second no i'm not going to try and have anal sex with my friend or any kind of sex she's to innocent its probally just a phase she's going through because she normally acts alot more well behaved .yes i like it a little but i don't want to thanks for your answer though its appreciated.

its not a problem! make a safe word. something stupid like banana. then when she's too rough say it so she knows the limit.. you said you like it a little so just teach her the limits.. and if she really likes it I bet she's a total freak.. so if you let her do that stuff she is very likely to let you do anything you want.. stick a finger in her ass and see if she will let you plow her asshole. or get a toy and try to stick your dick and the toy in her..

Masochist does not have specific problem as you are saying.

i'm not gay though so that won't fix any of my problems.

let me karate chop you upside your head then I'll gag fuck you with my meat dagger. my cock will fix all your problems

but i don't want to be a masochist its not something i'm proud of.

Masochism is nothing to be ashamed of; I am one myself. But there is a line between honest masochism and sexual masochism and allowing someone to abuse you. Search your fantasies with someone you can trust.