Married as Shit
Posted May 27, 2013 by anonymous | 277 views | 4 comments
I'm completely in love with a married man. We've been close friends for years, and have been having an affair for months. He's unhappy in his marraige, but for various reasons will never leave his wife. They have children, and divorce would mean financial ruin. I know that we should stop this before something awful happens, but I would never be able to be the one to make that call. I have known I loved the man for years. and if he wants to be with me I will always be available to him. One day it will end, whether it's because he finally balks at the risk or because we get caught, and just the thought breaks me a little. All I really, truly want is for him to be happy. Really happy. Whether it's with me, or without me, I want him to find contentment and enjoy his life. I pray that when the day comes and my heart has to break, his doesn't break as well.
Commented May 27, 2013 by anonymous
Thank you. Your first situation sounds very similar to mine, and it's encouraging to hear from someone else who's been there before.
Commented May 27, 2013 by anonymous
I have been there. I was with a married man and he and I went into it with honesty and discussed the expectations... that there were none. yes. we did develop strong emotions for each other. he was actually the man who taught me that I am worthy of being loved. that being said. a coupme years later I started a relationship with a man eho said he was available when he was not. when about a year later I found out from the woman he was telling her he loved her when he wouldn't say those words back to me yet, I was devastated. relationships are complicated. the first man? I don't wish I take it back. we were solace for each other. he and his wife were distant physically and he needed something more intellectually as well. I also needed something from him. be honest and up front. tell him your expectations. let him tell you his. being the other woman is hard but if you're ok with it... that's your cross to bear.
Commented May 27, 2013 by anonymous
Like people say selfish. If the guy truly seek happiness, he already divorce his wife or work things out instead of fucking anyone he can easily satisfy his need
Commented May 27, 2013 by anonymous
Shame on you both. Selfish selfish selfish.