This has been going on now for months and I could not be happier with my buds. Awhile back myself and a few friends met up for lunch outside when a very good looking couple walked by. The guy was nice looking, the woman very sexy. We all joked around together on the sex they must have, one of the guys without even thinking said, "yea I would have fun jerking off to them having sex" 2 of the other guys echoed the same thought. This got me thinking that,, even as a married man myself, I am an avid masturbator when my wife isn't around, and wondered what it would be like to jack with other like minded buds. That night I put an ad on some local sites on guys gettng together to masturbate in private and yes, I could host. The responses I got, mainly from married men still astonishes me? I met a few of the guys that sounded normal, I made it clear that I was married and this was something I enjoy doing and thought it would be fun to do it with other cool men into the same thing.The only stipulation was that we take our clothes off upon arrival, and have fun, leaving your day to day life and worries...outside! Let me be clear that I am not gay, but I find the male bonding between men is a feeling that I love, just being men. Also, my 3 children are grown, my wife works at a Hospital nights, so I am alone in our home. We have a big screen TV downstairs behind 2 locked doors with sofas and chairs to get comfortable in. So we are now about 6 to 7 guys, depending on the night and the experience we have all had is nothng short of incredable!! We talk about our fantasies if we like, some guys masturbate telling us how they fuck their wifes so we can hear. Other guys tell us that our getting together is the best thing that has happen to them in a spiritual way and the closeness we share is clearly a man thing. We do not kiss, but do touch one another that I find very erotic and seemingly natural when we are all nude watching porn and enjoying ourselves. I am finding as time goes on that I am enjoying myself with them than when I am being intimate with my wife? We all greatly look foward to our dates together as men being men and I have more guys that want to join us, but don't quite know how to really control the size of our very intimate group.It's all a balance, but one that for now I am enjoying more than I could have possibly dreamed of. We are not gym rats, all kinds of bodies and emotions happening, the anticipation of these special nights is strange but equally and utterly exciting...for all of us.Anybody else have this kind of delicate balance, I would love to hear, in the meantime, we still meet and masturbate to porn, oh so happily!!