first off, k. your comment was the worst of all, becuase i care more what you think than anyone on here. i never thuoght you would ever be one to cut me. in fact you are the first on here to ever truly hurt me and i am shocked it was you. you may think you were reprimanding me or have been trying to end something that WAS ugly, but all i did was what ANY of you would have done once you came to a post plastered with your named and followed by constant insults. i commented a response and i would do it again no matter who the poster was. i made one comment and had my say. if that is considered a 'cat fight' than meow! because i have not mentioned vic in months and it was a real bitch thing of her to do. if everyone wants to ignore that fact than so be it. K, i really hope you do well in life as i feel you are the type of man who has alot still to offer. and i see now it was stupid to think i would know if you do or not either way i guess it will always come down to everyone on here is just names and words on a screen. best of luck to you. WATCHFUL EYES: thank you so much for standing by me. i will probably never know who you were before when you were a regular on here, but i do appriciate you kind words towards me. ANONYMOUS: i took a look at your BS at that post you mentioned, you are dead wrong and i know who you are, so does rocky, and turbo. you are the most pathetic on here. none of what i say is admissible in court in a divorce proceeding you moron. first of all, my real husband has a record a mile long, he is always on a certain site with all different woman and even has one of the most sickening profiles i have ever read on there. he was even fired from his place of work for fucking on the job. before i turned on him i was the perfect wife and he knows where he fucked up, and he can easily be reminded of a child lost due to his abusiveness and constant stressful badgering. as well as holding me captive in my own home at times. my children don't want to live with him. he has since in the last couple years calmed down and let me go. so, you see he is the one who should be scared. not to mention 'sweetpea' is not exactly a real person in life, just in cyberspace. so don't worry, girl. i am not as dumb as vic likes to make me out to be. my kids are just fine and well taken care of. the courts judge way more than who is screwing who. btw, what other men do i talk to the way i am with turbo? see you are fucked up there too.to wrap it all up, YOU KNOW NOTHING.