I met someone I had an instant connection with, pardon the pun, through an online yahoo chatroom one night. Well, this guy was about 18 years older than me, is Mexican-American and is overweight, and has been divorced twice, but he warned me way before I met him about all this. Since I'm not a shallow person, I got over it all. He travels, rarely staying in one place for very long, because he does construction work since he's the foreman of building large watertowers (probably to make up for his small, uncircumsized-yuk!-penis).He had numerous jobs near where I was living for quite some time, so he swung by to meet me and everything seemed great for about 7 months, until I asked if he loved me. Well, we all know things go downhill after you ask a man THAT question! Soon after I noticed I was experiencing extreme itching down 'there' and found he gave me a bacterial infection and chlamydia. He denies he has anything and never goes to the doctor, not believing and not reimbursing me for my doctor bills and not caring. I had every test done to me for STDs before we first met, but he still wouldn't go have tests done on himself, swearing he was okay. His penis is too small to keep a condom on, so we had to go without the use of one. Oh, he only likes anal sex and also won't give oral on a woman and likes his nipples sucked, versus doing anything to a woman, which is kind of gay, don't you think? He started out doing fine in bed, then after a while it was all about him. He never tries to make a woman cum either. Though he makes a 6 figure income, he is one of the cheapest bastards I know and spends most of his time and money at flea markets and porn shops, hanging around with the most dreadful and depressing people in society. Why did I, a woman with a MA go out with a man that only has a high school education and is so gross? This is how difficult it is to find a decent man---you have to give every man a chance because they are so few and far between anymore. Oh, and he also started developing an interest in getting me to perform oral and sexual acts on dogs and horses, which I didn't do and would eventually just switch the subject. The last time I saw him, he told me how he would watch men having sex with his wife while he was hiding in the closet of his house! He also performed a threesome with himself and 2 lesbians. He's really into sex, but it's too bad he doesn't know how to make a woman cum. He has to use dildos because his penis is so small. I've never been with an uncut man before and it's safe to say I will never be with one again---it's disgusting and I would want to puke as he was cumming via blowjobs. His flab would just hang down from his stomach when he would be on top---yuk! Why did he have so much self-confidence? Who the Hell knows???? Men make no sense to me. People would stare at us together out in public, making him extremely nervous, because they would see how young and attractive I am and how old and fat he is. Why did I stay with him for so long? I deeply cared about him, but he started taking advantage of my kindness and expected me to do everything for him and when I asked for a bit of communication, he said it was getting to be a hassle with me. Meanwhile, he called me about a month earlier just to tell me he missed me after he saw the movie 'Castaway' with Tom Hanks. He also said that he's never met anyone as nice and caring as me. Once he called me (towards the end) and just started talking about how this big and burly cowboy outside of a bookstore approached him, asking if he could give him a blowjob. I was disgusted! Why are all men nuts??? This is proof-positive that dating someone totally beneath you isn't worth it and also that money doesn't buy class.