I am divorcing my husband. His mother says I'm crazy. I'm overreacting. I should be thankful he wasn't committing adultery with another woman. Cyber sex doesn't count. You'll never guess how I uncovered his cyber sex. I was trying to find a lost file with the find feature. I wasn't having luck. I was mad. For a joke I typed in a curse word. Up came pages from a hidden file that was cut/paste copies of my husband having cyber sex on the internet. I guess my husband was keeping them like a scrapbook of trophies to read and reread. I looked through the entire file which had photos too. I sat there in shock of what I was seeing. I felt betrayed by a man that was now a stranger to me. I couldn't have known the real Greg all this time. I filed for divorce. Greg says I'm being a prude about it and his mother tells me what her son did wasn't adultery .He wasn't actually with another woman. They both tell me to grow up. It was only harmless fun. They know I have no parents to turn to for advice. They believe I should listen to their advice on how I should think and feel about this. Since I have no one else to turn to I am asking everyone on this confessional http address I found in my husband's file to tell me straight out if they believe cyber sex is adultery yes/no? I realize being a confessional site that everyone is probably going to say no. You will also probably tell me not to divorce him for that alone. Once I have some answers as to whether or not it is adultery to see if I'm correct about that I will tell the rest of the story which goes beyond the adultery. I want to know if people will still think I'm an overreacting prude and wrong for divorcing him? If people on here can tell me I should divorce him then I will know for sure I am right. I will also be able to show my soon to be ex-husband and his mother that Greg's own peers agree with me!