im in over my head.
Posted Dec 3, 2012 by anonymous | 392 views | 5 comments
Two months ago I fucked my wives best friend. My wife has no idea. Every week since then I go to her house Mon. Afternoons and she blows me and we have great sex. She has talked me into paying for some of her bills, such as phone, cable, car payment,and iv bought her 5 new pairs of shoes. I think if I try to break it off she will tell my wife everything. I guess I'm kind of her little bitch right now,she has me by the balls. Should I just keep paying?
Commented Dec 4, 2012 by anonymous
She is just using you for her own sake, please leave her.
Commented Dec 3, 2012 by anonymous
LOL, yes, like telling HER best friend (aka Your Wife) that she's fucking her husband!
Commented Dec 3, 2012 by anonymous
Here's what I think. Yeah, you're fucked. But I wouldn't put up with blackmail even if it meant destroying my relationship. That can go on and on and end up destroying your relationship anyway (bills get traced, whatever). First, I would check with your mistress (let's give her the benefit of a doubt) whether she is blackmailing you or not. If she isn't, and stops the demands for financial gifts, and is willing to continue your illicit affair, you're not in such bad shape. Also, if she is a best friend to your wife, she may not want to hurt her either. And if she does, well, your wife needs a better best friend. Now, if she is trying to milk you and threatens blackmail, you've got to call her bluff. If you gauge she is willing to go through with it, tell your wife that you fucked up and that her girlfriend is trying to blackmail you. You both need to move on from her. (What a bitch!) Get couples counselling, do whatever it takes to save your marriage. Or, see if you can negotiate an "open" marriage so that both of you can have harmless flings while respecting the marriage. Personally, if you want to have flings, you should try to have an open discussion with your wife about it so you don't have to skulk and feel bad about it. I have an open relationship with my wife and it works. It reduces so much stress and we can just be adults responsible for our own feelings and desires. But it has to cut both ways.
Commented Dec 3, 2012 by anonymous
Yes, but get some even bigger shit on her so you can pull out of that easily.
Commented Dec 3, 2012 by anonymous
Hell no becuz the more you pay the deeper the hole gets