I've made a horrible mistake
Posted Apr 6, 2012 by anonymous | 1108 views | 5 comments
I got married on the Leap Year day to the man I love more than I have ever loved a person before. I think it may have been a horrible mistake. We have had sex three times in the 6 weeks we have been married. I've always known his sex drive was less than mine and we've worked through it before. But now that we're married it's like there's no interest at all. Nothing I try works, and talking to him about it just makes him feel bad. Talking about opening up the relationship makes him laugh dismissively, and I haven't the heart to tell him I'm serious about it yet. He had quit smoking before we got married. Now he keeps finding loopholes to smoke but "only one' or "only socially." He was gung-ho about getting a joint bank account once we were married since I make more than he does and he's terrible with money, but it's yet to happen. I feel like this was some game he was playing at and now he feels like he won, it's over, final cut scene, credits role. His family reacted poorly to the marriage announcement and I feel like - if we end it now - they'll feel vindicated, get him to come home, and he'll never be allowed to grow up. I don't know what to do. I love him, I wouldn't have MARRIED him if I didn't want to work through the tough stuff with him. But I don't even know where to begin...
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Commented Apr 28, 2012 by anonymous
Get you're husband some Viagra. Problem Solved.
Commented Apr 17, 2012 by newday55
Why would as you put it 'open up the relationship' ? Don't do it. Swinging is only meant for those with solid relationships to begin with. Doing such a thing now is only going to lead to things you will never be able to take back, ever. I can only imagine your hubby seeing you getting rammed by another guy or several. On the one hand it can be very arousing. But on the other you take the risk of creating some deep-seated resentment in hubby. Please back away from this idea.
Commented Apr 7, 2012 by anonymous
Try to sort out the problem with your husband. Have a face to face talk of the situation. May there will be a solution.