I'm tired of being a woman
Posted Aug 21, 2014 by anonymous | 233 views | 2 comments
I dread getting my period this month. Last month was absolutely horrid and unusual for me. I dealt with nerve pain ( similar to fibromyalgia). serve hip, back, neck and leg pain. Bad cramps. Hot flashes. Cold flushes. etc. in fact since last September the symptoms have varied each month. All intense and debilitating. One of the few things that I found to be consistent are the seven depression, impulsiveness personality/mood change and the overwhelming feeling of being out of control. I literally feel like a different person......and it scares me. Last august I had felt so horrible that I wanted to go into the laundry room of my apartment complex and hang myself. Ive mentioned my other period symptoms to people, but never this part. I don't think I ever could bring myself to because I don't want any of my loved ones to worry about me even more. Even though it was just that one time. I know If I were to explain all of this to my doctor , she would want to immediately put me on birth control, but I honestly don't ever want to be on it. Simply because my system is extremely sensitive. I guess I'll just suffer in silence until I can find some natural remedies.
Commented Oct 24, 2014 by anonymous
Take that hole and build a pole
Commented Oct 24, 2014 by anonymous
There is a medical procedure called ablation. It doesn't hurt as you are out/under general anesthesia. The doctor goes in and burns the lining of the uterus and you never have a period again. You have to be done having children though because once you have the procedure you can't carry a pregnancy. However you could still have a child of your own using your own eggs with a surrogate to carry the baby. In this country embryo transplant and surrogacy can easily run a hundred thousand + dollars. Which is why so many people go to India. There the cost for the surrogate and medical is around $5,000.00. There are, like with anything else, some bad places but for the most part the industry is highly regulated and people who go over report many happy experiences usually seem to be satisfied with the whole process. Also your doctor might suggest hormones but a better approach might be medication like Xanex your hormones will still fluctuate even after ablation but you won't mind, will feel pretty happy and good despite that if you're popping Xanex or some other feel good drug you can tolerate while you're PMSing. Also if you can get yourself some decent pain meds you might not need hormones, Xanex or any naturocrapathy. Women doctors are the worst because even though you'd think another woman would understand more often female doctors are of the - I manage to deal with it so you should be able to suck it up too, mindset. Go to a male doctor. one that is younger and modern but still old school enough to be chivalrous - that's your knight in shining armor kind of doctor who will give you stuff that actually helps. The absolute worst kind of doctor to go to for help with female problems is a female doctor who thinks suffering is a natural, happy, healthy, wholesome part of being a woman which ideally with the onset of perimenopause will only continue to get worse and worse over time - yippee! It's always best to go to doctors who know it completely sucks to be a woman. Most men know women have it rough and are extremely happy to not to have to be female and gushing blood and junk and stuff themselves so when you go to them and explain how you don't like it unlike most female doctors they get it!