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get a dildo shove up your ass and think of him. he is getting his dick of talking to you . you will never meet. do not be stupid.

Have you fun and go home with his cumm running down you legs and reeking of sex. Just enjoy yourself, dont fall in love. Meet him, have fun, fuck him, do all the nasty things you wont do with your husband, then go home, clean up and be the good little bitch wife you are supposed to be. 'nuff said slut.

just wait till YOU'RE married. Then you'll know!

She is prob sleeping. A lot of couples are not always sleeping at the same time!

....if you're unhappy with your marriage, get a divorce! GEEZ it never ceases to amaze me the grown ass people on here, that don't already know what they NEED to do!! if you want to share your life with someone you have around more, GET A DIVORCE, FIND THAT PERSON, AND HAVE THE LIFE YOU DESIRE! but for GOD SAKES.....find someone who is available!!!!!!!! DON'T be on of those miserable people who take what does not belong to them because misery loves company!

**Love that Episode!***

Fucking George Lopez. True that shit.

Don't you see that this man considers you to be his online confidant and nothing's ever gonna materialise for you? Whether he loves his wife or not is not the issue here, the fact is I wouldn't bother making reservations anywhere because he's no intentions of ever meeting you! You're one of those lonely women that owns lots of cats and collects friends via the internet and that's fine baby but don't expect this one to progress any further and jump from outta your computer screen. He has a few laughs with you on here but he sees you as nothing more than Glenn Close in the 1987 movie Fatal Attraction. Difference is, he's just not retarded enough to bang you. Take care.

And then we have YouTube like commentary like this guy, 'oh my goodness, they're soooo edumacated'! Which isn't even a comment to the confession, just something to point out so they seem like a smart ass.

But the only sex there is or ever will be is between the online man and his wife which he loves and doesn't intend to give up.

its only sex

You're right All pity the fool, and that includes you.

do us all a favor and learn to spell before you post comments. Everything isn't spelled as it sounds bucko.

Wow!!!! I just don't know where to begin so I won't. Pain is handled in many ways and she is delusional but desperate for something. Certainly makes you think about predator and prey.

It makes me sad that no one stopped judging long enough to see a hurt, vulnerable person with little love in her life. In order to go this far with the unknown, unreal she must really have it bad. It amazes me that thier is no empathy given nor advice to help. It is fortunate that you ppl judge so harshly because your lives are so great. From one person to the next you all should be ashamed especially you standing behind the morals of her issue. Morals don't feed the love monster we all have nor feel the lonliness she must feel. What I say to her is you haven't found love, you need love , and you should find a good counselor who will not judge but try to understand.

man, you are just lonely, you should unite with your wife, whom you swore to love her during your wedding.

why don't you both do eachothers spouces a favor and interduce them so they can be with deceant people!

he tells you he never sees his wifey, but yet he does not want to meet? sounds like someone is a sucker here! face facts...YOU are just a phone buddy to fluff his ego, and you are the fool falling for it! you should really be ashaimed of yourself!!!! OH BTW...if this does go further than the phone...ALL YOU ARE GETTING IS A CHEATER & appears...THAT IS ALSO WHAT HE IS GETTING!

AGREED!

Yes, well maybe we should all just run when ever the excitement in any relationship starts to diminish. That's not being frivolous. It's just realizing that 'me first' is all that really matters. Who would dare call such a person shallow or disingenuous.

Love does not comply to our simplistic cultural edicts. Every situation must be assessed on it's own merit and shortcomings. Marriage is artifice, but agreements should not be taken lightly. Perhaps instead of marriage we should have limited liability agreements. It would be totally unnatural if the growth of your soul didn't engage with new people on an ongoing basis. It all boils down to how you want to handle your agreements and negotiation of new terms.

You what ? You're in love with a cybespace humanoid androidy thingy ? What you need is fucking help so you can tell the difference between reality and digital fantasy you pathetic excuse for a human. You're probably communicating with a peado who thinks you're 12 and judging by you're comment, you appear to have the brains of a 12 year old you fucking retard !!! Why don't you get divorced you weak cunt and sort you're fucking pathetic, shit life out. After you sort you're life out, learn how to use a pc for more that what you are doing right now you pathetic, dumb cunt !!! Either that or get yourself a pet for company you lonely cunt !!!

since you are clearly a whore with no morals, will you blow me? I could use some seriously good head tonight.

After reading the original poster's responses to the public's comments, it's painfully obvious that she has already accepted in her mind that there is nothing wrong with what she/they are doing. She justifies her behavior and strives to live out her fantasy in her mind. No amount of of logic will sway her. You have to be logical in the first place. Let her chase her tail people. The man made it clear that they should stay away. It's his nice way of saying 'no' and she can't read between the lines.

Tell that to the original poster, and then ask her to share it with her husband.

Its funny how many people are freaking out over this. Its just a harmless fantasy.

lol, this post made me laugh. How lame that both of these people have nothing better to do in there marriage then to meet other people online and fall in love. Really? If her marriage was so great she wont be having an emotional affair online, then confessing on a website about her feelings for a stranger shes never met in person! Also, its so easy to ' love ' ( and I use that term very lightly here) someone that you a) have never met B) dont live with. Must be nice for you and him to escape. Just remember while you to are building up this 'oh they are so wonderful,and perfect ', 'wish I could have a spouse like that.'..., the wife and husband of these two have no clue whats going on ! They are the ones living with these two( low lifes) and dealing with the day to day family, sex, kids, work, money and stress in the relationship .. not you two! These two are so far into fake its laughable!!. These types of people always live with the poor me , grass is greener on the other side of the fence type of mentalities. Good luck with ever being happy in your real lives!

You have no business having a secret friendship with another woman's husband. I am sure the two of you are not talking about the weather and exchange baking recipes. It is surely something more intimate than that or you wouldn't have to confess it. It doesn't matter that you haven't met, it is an emotional affair and you are a cold heartless bitch for doing this behind his wife's back and behind your husband's back. He is just as bad.

What's pitiful is how your opinions are formed without concern for the truth. Interesting also that you say that your marriage is fine. Yet you report: That, 'traditional marriage doesn't work.' You're emotionally involved with another woman's husband, and you have expressed that you are in love with this other man. It's improbable that you have told your husband about your wish to meet another man that you love. If you had, you would then try to convince me that he is alright with it. After all he surely accepts that ' a lifetime is too long for a commitment' and 'life and love happen.' Yeah, your marriage is fine. By the way it's not judgment that is 'wrong with the world;' it's the lack of moral standards.

His is failing, mine is fine. You must be a woman? The problem with women is often we would rather bury our heads in the sand than to consider that what we have always known may not be the way it really is. It is sad and frustrating to watch women lose men listening to advice from women like you. It is pitiful.

You can verify the statistics if you were to bother to try. But you won't believe it anyway. That's the nature of delusions. Saying that traditional marriage doesn't work is a judgement formed from a lack of insight. Curiously, you say your marriage isn't failing, but traditional marriage doesn't work. You make no sense.

A person suffering from your delusions can assure nothing.

I have never met him. Get real...Other woman. Really?

Brainwashed....just brainwashed and idealistic. My marraige is not failing and it is probably better than yours if you are even married. If you take that moral high road into your bedroom I can assure you that your spouse is doing the freaky sneaky on long lunches while you stuff your face with carrot cake.

never implied that. i wouldn't leave my spouse for him either. if you were going to comment it should have been to provide insight not judgement. That's what's wrong with the world now. The divorce rate in this country is over 50%. not sure which moral site you got your statistic from but it is wrong just like you.

The statement was about gullibility not about marriage. However, if you need reassurance about marriage, the truth is that the divorce rate in the US peaked in the seventies and has since declined. Even at it's peak first marriage failures never exceeded 41%. I don't think this will convince you however; after all you cling to the belief that someone who refuses to meet you might leave his wife for you.

What you're really saying is that your morals are written in sand, and change with every foul breeze. No wonder your marriage is failing, and as you have correctly assessed your next one will too.

traditional marraige doesn;t work. this is evidence. seems as if the friendship is more intimate than the marraige.

not at all but if you believe in traditional marraige you are. it no longer works. ppl fall in and out of love all the time and a lifetimeis too long for a committment.

Is that you Mildred?

You're very gullible.

If they have children you especially have no business getting involved with him. You need to fix what is wrong in your marriage or get out of it and find someone who is truly available. Being the 'other woman' is despicable.

when a weed grows in a garden you kill it. You are married, he is married. Get divorced and clean up your garden before you start growing somebody else's vegetables.

IDK

We met randomly on a gaming site. There was no intent. We became friends and now it has become this. What ever it is. I didn't pick this. There were cracks in the foundation that allowed it to grow. People judge while life and love happens. It isn't always they way you think it is.

No she isn't. We are constantly on the phone. Even in the midle of the night. Sometimes all night long. She's not there.

His wife is around a lot more than he tells you.

There are plenty of single men in the world. Leave the married one's alone.

If he loves you then what