I need to feel needed.
Posted Dec 26, 2011 by anonymous | 379 views | 4 comments
i know everyone likes to feel needed... but i need to feel needed. I'm drawn to the wrong type of people. whether its because they are just anti social, or if they have a drug addiction, or anxiety disorders, or are extremely depressed, i just feel like i need to help them. i feel like without me they wouldn't be okay, and i need to make them okay again. they need me to love them, because no one else will. my current boyfriend only has one friend. Me. without me, he would have nothing. is that why I'm with him? my best friend is a nervous wreck. she can't make decisions for herself. am i only friends with her because i feel like she needs me? another of my friends is lonely, homesick, and has severe anxiety. do i have suppressed feelings towards him because he is so alone? he is also undeniably attractive, but that is besides the point. do i have a problem? is it bad to need to be needed?
Commented Dec 27, 2011 by anonymous
It's not wrong to feel needed. It's perfectly normal.
Commented Dec 27, 2011 by anonymous
Bitch, you have never been valued for the unique human being that you are. You have no sense of self and you have no clue who you are. You have been trained to cater to everyone's needs but your own, and you like it too cause then you don't have to deal with your life. You need to back the fuck off and stop interfearing in the lives of others... stop controlling everyone around you for your won selfish reasons and stop pretending that they need you...bitch, you need them. You need them to be weak so that you can seem strong, deep inside you know you're fake. You're mother made you mother her and that bitch selfishly stole your childhood -it wasn't intentional. She's just too needy. Grow the fuck up and you can start by taking care of your needs, the emotional ones, cause unless your taking care of someone and bonding through their weakness, you're lost socially, but with your smarts, you'll be alright so long as you develope your personality and interests.
Commented Dec 27, 2011 by anonymous
Being needed makes you feel loved sometimes but it sounds like you're willing to give up everything to be needed, just have limitations.
Commented Dec 26, 2011 by anonymous
Hey! I need you too!