i need advice...
Posted May 30, 2013 by anonymous | 234 views | 4 comments
ok.. so im 18, and a few months ago, I broke up with a guy I was with for almost 3 yrs. ( I started seeing him behind my parents back when i was 15. ) We broke up for alot of reasons.. but the biggest reason is he was abusive when he drank. He also lies, cheats and steals from me and my family. So after alot of support... I broke up with him. Since then.. I met a new guy. He's awesome!! Hes cute, funny, caring, has a good job, own car, own house, and my parents love him. There just one problem... the sex... its bad!! He has like a tiny little penis, and nothing he does gets me off. Honestly... I'd rather watch wheel of fortune then have sex with him. Its not that he doesnt try... he does!! He just isnt that good in it.. and he doesnt have the right tool. I know size isnt suppose to matter.... but it really does. Now for the bad part... I've been still seeing the 1st guy for sex. We meet during lunch and after work and screw. Why? Because the guy is A-M-A-Z-I-N-G in sex!!! Hes hung like a bull ( almost 10" hard.. 7" soft ) and has a long tongue that makes me shake. I cum multiple times with Rick ( the old bf ) and none with Jason ( the new bf ). I get so weak with Rick I can hardly stand after sex. With Jason... i think about washing dishes . I dont know what to do!! Rick is a asshole in every sense of the word... but a king in the bed. Jason is 100% a great catch... but the worst lover ever. I've tried using toys, but nothing is like the real thing. I know sex isnt everything... but it is something!!! Im a young attractive 18yo in her prime.... WTF do i do??
Commented May 31, 2013 by anonymous
Agree with the group! You need to teach him everything that you like and that turns you on! Let him know, show him, and CONSTRUCTIVELY criticize him when he's going the wrong way. Teach him, and let him become that alpha bull in bed you need! Shorter guys have to do more work, but I promise you that they can and do get the job done! Stop cheating with the asshole first because he knows he can keep pulling you back in for some pussy when he needs some, stop cheating period, and focus on teaching the new boy Jason. Good luck and God bless!
Commented May 30, 2013 by anonymous
You know what you should do with your new boyfriend? TEACH HIM to be the Tarzan in bed. I'm serious, teach him. He won't know what to do until he learns.
Commented May 30, 2013 by anonymous
Jason is a good guy you need to learn to adapt. yes you're young but either you're ready for a serious relationship or you're not. if you truly are then you need to stop cheating on this great amazingly guy.
Commented May 30, 2013 by anonymous
Have you talked to the new bf about what he should do to please you?