Come to my house and ill take care of that yearning pussy of yours. My tongue is talented and would love to tease your pretty clit. Call or PM me and I'll make you wish you never met that worthless piece of shit husband of yours.

OH PLEASE!!!! PFFFT, people who make these comments, like the one above! Trully are in need! They are scorned and lonley, they are selfish and mean, AND have never really had a lasting relationship to talk of, which means they have had no challenges... POSTER, I AM sorry you are feeling so emotionally drained as I have been in your shoes. Marriage is so very hard. so hard you DO SOMETIMES find yourself wondering, 'If it is meant to be, why is this SO hard?'....NO 2 people are alike and there will ALWAYS be arguments, hurtful things said, and hurdles to overcome. Once it all comes out, some say words and action can always forgiven, seldom forgotten. We are human. AS HUMANS, we love, laugh, & hurt. once we ingage in a union. We are putting 2 people not the same together to live under one roof and as one. We are going to all who try this, at one point colide! it is enevitable!! If you trully have talked to your husband, and he does not want to change things from this downward slope, then perhaps it is time to go your seperate ways. MAKE SURE you have exhausted all your options to fix this, or you may look back one day and say, 'If only I had tried this, said this, or not said this?' ALSO REMEMBER the old saying, (You can lead a horse to water, but you can not make him drink.) Which of the two of you is not willing to drink? I have always said what should be added to that great saying, 'After you have worked so hard to lead that horse to that water, did you infact take a drink to show him what you intended for him to do?' 'As you surley must have been thirsty at this point yourself?' I hope you live a long, healthy, and happy life with only these few hurdles, mam.

And thank you for your support. Too many people now days put their kids, families and responsibilities first, and themselves second.

Casual sex with a random stranger can be quite thrilling.

Thank you top poster. kiss off jack as respondent

I don't care how it effects him or our kids. I need to start thinking about what I want for a change. It's only fair.

well its possible that the medication is causing the lack of sex drive.. so maybe try and get him to take other drugs. maybe you should initiate the sex and see what he does.. and well if his illness is that serious then give him a break.. i know its hard but still hes sick.

the kids! everyone says that!! so because 2 people have kids, they should always remain with being unhappy? kids grow up, move out, and start their own life. meanwhile, mom (or in some cases, DAD) spend the better part of their life unhappy!!!! then they are 2 old to start new. a 'toy' is not cheating...he can either talk to his doctor to see what else he can take, or perhaps it is time to move on. he may be sick, but neither of you are dead! explain to him you have needs also. he is LUCKY you want to work this out! 2 years is not very long, alot of woman your age would already be looking, and i asume the kids are from a previous relationship. you are not only giving him you, but them aswell. he really should not be giving up so fast.

Call me. :)

Remember your vows. Get a vibrator if you have to but your kids are watching. What are you going to teach them?