
I hate her
Posted Apr 16, 2013 by anonymous | 273 views | 11 comments
My boyfriend of 3 years has had an "ex" be his best friend for the entirety of our relationship. When I told him I don't like it, and that it makes me crazy that she texts him all the time and that they hang out more than I could imagine two platonic friends could.... he simply kept it from me. So I read his phone. She calls him babe. And he is apparently the only guy she's ever been in love with. Oh... didn't I tell you? She's suposed to be a lesbian. I just want her to leave us alone and stop disrespecting me by relying on my boyfriend like he's her boyfriend. She manipulstes him with her depression.... and I am beginning to become really upset by it all. He makes me feel like a crazy person when I bring it up.
Commented Apr 17, 2013 by anonymous
You're pushing him away. Stop being clingy. Plenty of mature people are close friends with the opposite sex without fucking. Most of my friends are men. My best friend its a cishet man that I gave a chance when figuring out my sexuality, and one thing that annoys the Hell outta me is the assumption we're having sex just because he's a man and i'm a woman. I call a variety of friends 'babe', so that alone isn't enough to determine something is going on. If you want him to spend more time with you, take cues from her on what hobbies or interests to have, as they most likely share hobbies and interests. ... Damn, please, let us put this stereotype of the paranoid, jealous, clingy, vindictive woman to rest.
Commented Apr 17, 2013 by anonymous
HE IS FUCKING HER! Ya dumb blind bitch
Commented Apr 17, 2013 by anonymous
yup he's fucking her a male and female cannot be that close without something else going on
Commented Apr 17, 2013 by anonymous
He is obviously cheating and making you feel crazy so you will believe him. Trust me I see similar situations alll the time and yes he is cheating big time! Listen to your gut feeling bc its leading you right and he is trying to keep you in the dark as long as he can.
Commented Apr 17, 2013 by anonymous
Amen!
Commented Apr 17, 2013 by anonymous
He's fucking her, dumb ass.
Commented Apr 17, 2013 by anonymous
You should have to talk with your boyfriend and his friend separately. Tell them both what you feel about them.
Commented Apr 17, 2013 by anonymous
You're being controlling if you think it's fair to tell your boyfriend who he can or can't be friends with. It's going to fuck up your relationship much faster than if you just let him be friends with his ex.
Commented Apr 17, 2013 by anonymous
Ya either that or will do the same to him that's the slit version or u can do what he said talk to her
Commented Apr 16, 2013 by anonymous
Text this bitch tell her u wanna have lunch and tell her how you feel!!!
Commented Apr 16, 2013 by anonymous
if he really cares for you he will keep his distance from her and if he doesn't seem to care how you feel and does nothing to change the situation then you know where you stand and i suggest you move on.