This is really embarrassing, but please be totally, brutally honest... So I have this really tough cousin (one of the toughest girls in our school). She's fighting with her little brother the other day and when I went to pull her off of him, she turned on me like "you wanna fight?" She kept threatening me and shoving me backwards til I couldn't back up anymore Because there was a spare bed behind me. Then she really made me look like a punk by shoving me down onto the bed and standing over me like "come on, get up, lets fight" "are you scared of a girl?" "what's a matter b1tch, don't you have any balls?" I knew if I got up she could just shove me back down Because the bed was right behind my knees. I got up anyway, and she shoved me right back down. When I got up a second time, she stared me down for a second then slapped me in the face. She stood there for a couple seconds to see if j would react. When I didn't, she was like "that's what I thought..." My own family (brother & cousins) say I'm lucky she didn't beat me up even worse - they think she can easily beat me up cuz 1) she's just as strong as me - I couldn't beat her in armwrestling - had to settle for a draw after 5 min of trying my hardest and 2) She's more of a natural born fighter and more dominant than me (I guess she used to beat me up when we were little). I still highly doubt a girl could really beat up a boy. A) Why do you think my cousin did this to me? Like what does she get out of doing that? B) And why is she so sure she can beat me up? C) Do you think some really tough girls actually can beat up boys? D) Do you think my cousin could beat me up? Why / why not? (Please give some explanation here) E) Am I a wimp for letting her humiliate me like that? PS - I know this is kinda long and a lot. If talking on the phone is faster/easier for you, lmk.