At the end of the day religion is a fantasy and we're just sexy monkeys on a rock spinning through space, life's short and its ridiculous to burden yourself with guilt over something that isn't hurting anybody. Be a good person by all means, and empathy is key to that but these "exploited women" are paid well, they love their "job" and they get off on a hard cock in front of the cameras and its a turn on to watch. So enjoy!

There is a God, for sure. But he made you, made you sexual, and expects you to enjoy it. He KNOWS we will make mistakes, experiment different ways, and HE always forgives us. HE made us in his image, knowing the thing we would do. Just enjoy whant you have been given in ways you want to and enjoy. Love and or sex between two people (any two) is good if you relax and let it happen naturally.

I dont even believe in god. you need to calm down. sex is natural and everyone watches porn. you're not sinning. you did nothing wrong. you're just overreacting

my goodness so do you want to stop?or will u stop

I will forgive you! Just keep your head up! :)

OMFG! Get over it! Sex is natural. Stop letting fake religions make your entire life a guilt trip! Grow up!

i was so good church asked me to become a nun. ha... men finally got me to pop my cherry. i love love sex. i have 3 men i see regularly. i am what they call fuckable... i almost died more than once and i was not happy. being goody was not getting me happy. i now whore myself out and i am happier. i love seeing a man cum on me in me. i love they call me from each end of the country. sex done safe is ok.

True dat!

This is why I love religious girls. You're all so sexually repressed that none of you know how to control it. Every religious girl I've ever been with is a bottle of pent up sexual frustration. Pure awesomesauce lol The guy wasn't saying you're entire purpose is to to pee and have sex moron. He was saying that's the purpose of a penis. You caught up to speed Brah? Op just think about that girl you really have a crush on. Imagine being at her house alone with her, she's suddenly hot and take her jacket off revealing a tiny tank top. She's making faces at you while her breast are in plane sight. Haha have fun with the porn tonight champ [:

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Uh huh. Very admirable IF you practice what you preach. I have a married Muslim friend. He is a good, kind man, provides well for his family and treats his wife and children well. Upon occasion, we travel over a hundred miles out of town to a whore house. He is 45 and adores white, fair skinned women. The bottom line, Muslim, Christian or Jew, we are all sinners. We all fall short of perfection. In his defense, at least he isn't practicing Jihad and blowing up innocent people in the name of Allah.

Yes. 'Bro'. Live it up. This person thinks you are a being who's entire purpose is to pee and masturbate. Why bother even trying to live up to the potential God gave you? Just hang with the monkeys cousin, his ideas are clearly better than Gods.

Exactly what the devil would say.

Perhaps he feels the 'whole person that he is' could be better, perhaps he doesn't want to be the kind of man who objectifies and uses women carelessly for his own self-pleasure. Maybe the person he REALLY is, thinks women are deserve more from him than that.

You are a Catholic, the Baptismal mark was placed upon you and so the RCC is your true home. Other methods cannot truly work for you. To find absolution you need to do a true confession, in a confessional, with a Priest. You will not find forgiveness by listening to the advice and condolences of heretics. Look at these comments! Many of them can't even understand the problem. You need to find the strength to make your proper peace with God. It will be worth it in the end. Jesus loves you and wants to unburden you, but you have to come to Him. Seek, and ye will find. Peace be with your spirit. (PS- you are so very, truly, NOT alone.)

I am a Muslim, as part of my religion and beliefs, I have firm faith and belief on ALL holy books and prophets. I love the way you helped him and the thinking you provided to him. From another angle (muslim's) as well, I second the above post and would say, stop beating yourself up, God has already a path ahead laid out for you, just listen to Him and talk to Him and pray and seek forgiveness and walk on the path your heart feels good about. HE is nearer to you more than even a few milimeters. He sees you, he listens and You are already in his good books (i believe it) :)

that doesnt help either. You can get a wife too but that also doesnt help. This habbit is something completely different ballgame and one should work its way out of it. I had a girlfriend in past life... now i have a wife.... and i still do it.... often... and would want to stop .... looking into ways.... thats why I am reading this article and comments ... :)

hahahaha you are so funny !!!! (and i am a guy myself)

Why do you say 'go attack a muslim' ? Infact, there are several religions in this world! It's just as stupid crazy as the media propaganda since a decade!

it is what it is.

I am actually getting a divorce because of this. I even told the man that hey.... hello... wake up.... all you are gonna do is go crying to God. Then you will repeat. and go crying to God again. Addiction to forgiveness..... or Abuse of forgiveness?! You start noticing the same routines over and over again and you keep wondering why! Why on earth is nothing working out?! Then you come here..... because you have gone to everyone else. Here is what I have to tell you: My husband does it too. Nothing good ever comes of any action that he makes. We are getting a divorce. I can tell you.... he will repent of his sins and not feel a thing after everything and move on because he thinks he is supposed to that after every little thing. My husband has developed a problem with dealing and coping due to forgiveness. Maybe because he asked for forgiveness too much over everything. Here is how you RESPECT the Lord while asking for forgiveness: Only go to the Lord when you absolutely need Him. He is a busy man. Schedule your prayers and go to him when abusolutely in the deep time of need. Respect is the key word. Do not feed the addiction. That is temptation. Keep your mind busy with work that will bring a good seed of finances. When home, Keep your mind busy with house work. The good seed of a clear mind.

Habitual thinking is my problem too, but people have worse problems than you. Instead of feeling bad about yourself, think of others who have it worse than you. You could progress into one of the people that you think are disgusting perverted excuses for human beings. You might think you are there right now, but there is always a new extreme to be reached. You can't reach that next extreme. Everyone makes mistakes, at least your biggest one is a porn addiction. Instead of thinking of taking to the next level up, think of taking it down. Don't try to stop cold turkey. Think of your addiction as a level thing. Say you are at level fifteen, don't go up to sixteen, keep going down to fourteen, thirteen. Its easy if you just think of going down instead of going up.

Live up. Bro, you have a penis for a reason: Peeing and sex. It;s a SEX ORGAN. Bro, live it up, and just sream to the sky one day 'I REGRET NOTHING.'

Let's face it, some of the girls on the internet have made some cash fare and square and some have been exploited. If you're as conscious of this as it appears you are then only visit the most reputeable sites. Either that or stop masturbating. Pretty simple options really bud...

Why don't you go attack a muslim you little fucking retard? Shut your fucking mouth you CUNT!

calm down, this is someone you dont know who wants help. be kind and patience. dont be like the rest of the world who seems to not have a heart. be better than the people who hurt you and acknowledge the fact he was able to speak up and voice his problem

In way I know how you feel. I am a 22 year old woman and recently I had an issue with seducing men. I was an 'escort' and thought I would have less of a chance of getting into trouble if I worked with guys that were inexperienced with sex or virgins. I guess those details don't really matter but the entire time I was doing this I was working in a church, was an active member of my community and someone people had always called a good example. The whole time, no one had any idea what I was doing and when I finally told some of my friends, they didn't believe me. I don't totally understand what made me do it but like you, I wanted to stop. I had a lot of trouble forgiving myself after that because I felt like I had robbed people of their innocence and screwed them up for life. I felt like I had helped those guys think it's healthy to exploit women or use them only for sex. I know I'm speaking from the other side of this, but honey I just wanted you to know that I don't blame any of the men for this. I never did and never will. If I didn't want them to lust after me, I wouldn't have taken my clothes off... I hope you can understand what I'm trying to say here, it's good that you want to have a healthier outlook when thinking of women and that you want to make right what you see as wrong. But you can't beat yourself up over your past. If this is not the man you want to be then decide to live your life differently. It's a choice, no one forces it on you. And forgiveness is there, I know they would forgive you. I know that God would forgive you too. I think your main issue now is that you won't forgive yourself. I pray you find healing and that you can go on to enjoy sex in a healthy way :)

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I have exactly the same problem, im 13 and a girl

There's nothing wrong with you, except that you don't accept and love yourself for the whole person you are. :)

So you are a Christian pervert ? Like all fucking religious nutters, you are symptomatic of what is wrong in our society. Fuck your religious beliefs, fuck the fact that you're a pervert and fuck your problems. Go and get professional medical help to assess your sexual and mental issues. You need to be pescribed medication. Very strong medication by the looks of it. Nutters like you should be placed in mental institutions since clearly you are a pervert and believe in religious bullshit because you are irrational. Have you seen God by the way ? Did you have a chat with him ? You perverted, Christian nutter !!!

Please forgive yourself and listen to your heart.

it's so obvious which users are the chicks, cause they are the ones that are further trying to make you feel like your doing something wrong. don't listen to them, they don't know what it is like to have a penis. i bet most have them have bated anyways, the stupid hypocrites!!

listen, you are not alone. in all honesty, there is a reason you haven't been forgiven, and want to know why that is? because literally over 80% of boys growing up like you throughout the years have gone through porn sites, masturbated to all these women, and at least 99% have masturbated plenty of times, and are cowards if they try to deny it. god, although i am not a believer in any religion, doesn't need to forgive you, because your not doing anything wrong. god made men, and created them to think, to lust. trust me, your masturbating to women, who i would like to point out gladly posted themselves all over the internet just for guys like you and me to masturbate too, trust me, god has millions of worse sinners to deal with than guys like us that indulge in guilty pleasures here and there. the way i see it, if god hasn't stricken you down yet, then you don't have anything to worry about.

I forgive you. But God loves you, and you must answer to him and ask for forgiveness.

Look for a 'SA' meeting in your area, or a generic 12 step program meeting. You can get past this if you change the habitual thinking in your mind.

My young neighbor is 'hot' to look at and I flirt with her every chance I get. She has a son three years younger than me. I am 16 but MATURE in many ways, especially the way it takes to satisfy a woman. She has seen me in my speedoes and commented how specially nice I look. I think I can lay her if I can get some private time with her. Now she flirts with me a lot. Her husband is a lot older. Maybe 20 years older. I have had a few girls and some oral sex so I know what a woman likes. Wish me luck, cause I really want to fu..

I am 17, black, and I really L O V E sex. I have to have it several or more times ever day, and often I masterbate while I think about it. I only like white women, and I am able to get them from 15 to 50. They all seem to like the excitement of a black dick and I like getting into a white crotch and feel them climax on me. Sometimes I think I wll go nuts wanting to fuck every cute white chick I see. They have a way of letting me know they are interested in me. Some get excited and talk about when the white men were screwing the slaves and the white women were secretely screwing the inside house boy.

i forgive you too. I do because I would want to be forgiven. Confession is good for you. If you can't hurt someone with the truth, try your damndest to change yourself. If you aren't strong enough then confess it to a man of God. He will forgive you. One day you will be able to tell who you have wronged. You may be broken. They will forgive you as well. Promise.

Get a real girlfriend.

They make medicine for that. Sorry it's eating you up so much. I watch porn regularly, but I am a female and I don't see it as degrading. They do make medicine to calm your sexual urges! GOD will forgive you, he sees all sin as the same.

Had the same problem-- if you keep yourself busy enough then you won't have time for porn. I mean stay REALLY BUSY....so busy that even when you come home at night you're too tired to stay up and watch porn and you go to bed instead. Your hormones are probably going wild at your age-- I have a hyperactive sex drive and would sometimes masturbate 5 times in 5 hours, became so problematic that the majority of my days were spent watching porn.

: Check out 'Celebrate Recovery' It's a Christian based program like A.A. that deals with addictions like drugs, booze, porn etc. They will help and guide you. Google the name to find one in your area. Good luck Flying V

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Sex may be natural but porn allows you to get the sex without intimacy- NOT ok. That's viewing a human being as an object but just the fact that you're willing to confess it and not sit here and try to validate and justify your behavior is HUGE. You can't change something if you don't acknowledge that its a problem to begin with. So good for you. And God doesn't hate you. Forget the Catholic version of the angry hateful, vengeful God. That's just something they made up to put butts in the seats on Sunday. God only operates from a place of love and love doesn't look to punish. It provides patience and a place to lean until you are ready to take on the challenge of kicking a really bad habit. And it's the HABIT that's bad- not you.

I forgive you. But God forgives you even more. God doesn't love you any less than He did when you first started. He thinks you're amazing. He wouldn't have created you in the first place if He thought you would be a disappointment. He knew every sin you were going to commit ahead of time, and He made you anyway. Confession is good, but it doesn't make God forgive you. He forgave you 2011 years ago (roughly). The shame and guilt you are feeling comes from the devil, not from God. When God makes you feel guilty, He does it in a way that heals you. When the devil makes you feel guilty, he does it to paralyze you. I'm struggling with pornography as well, and I'm 26, so I've been at it longer than you. My sin is great, but God is bigger. I would suggest that you try praying the next time you look at some porn. Here's some advice from Richard Foster: 'I now want to give a counsel that may sound strange. It is that we should learn to pray even while we are dwelling on evil. Perhaps we are waging an interior battle over anger, or lust, or pride, or greed, or ambition. We need not isolate these things from prayer. Instead we talk to God about what is going on inside that we know displeases him. We lift even our disobedience into the arms of the Father; he is strong enough to carry the weight. Sin, to be sure, separates us from God, but trying to hide our sin separates us all the more.' i.e. don't just pray to God the things you think you ought to pray. Tell Him even the things that you think are not appropriate for prayer. Tell Him how horny you are. Tell Him how you're tired of just looking at pictures and you wish you were doing the real thing. Maybe that sounds terrible to you, but there's even worse in the Bible: Moses accused God for making him responsible for the Israelites (Num 11:11). When some boys made fun of Elisha, he cursed them and God sent bears to eat them (2 Kings 2:24). David said, 'Happy shall they be who take your little ones and dash them against the rock!' (Psalm 137:9) These are 'terrible' prayers. But Moses, Elisha, and David were all expressing how they really felt to God. You should do the same. As you do this, you will understand God's forgiveness. By the way, there's nothing permanent about your addiction. If you want some pragmatic advice on how to break away, I would recommend the book 'Every Young Man's Battle'. By all means, get off the porn if you can! But stop worrying about your performance. God already has a plan for setting you free.

Don't feel bad about this. It's normal for an 18 guy to watch porn. These videos that 'exploit' women are also paying them tens of thousands, and generally, the producers didn't seek the actress out, the actress looked for them. You've done nothing wrong, stop feeling guilty.

agree

no one, not even the silent few here, including myself, have the right to judge you. this is between you and God.

sex is not dirty its natural god made women and man for a reason stop feeling down and just enjoy your life.