I dont believe in changing people you love, but...
Posted Mar 2, 2011 by anonymous | 73 views | 0 comments
I've been dating a guy off and on since the 7th grade, we're now in our twenties, and he's gotten more and more gorgeous (I've been told he's a '10') while I've stayed adequately 'cute'. My friends all say how lucky I am that we're seeing each other. He's awsome, funny, nice, caring, responsible and He cares about me. We say I love you. Although I'm not actually sure if it's a 'lover' I love you or a 'fondness' I love you. I want to spend every day with him and cook him things. But there's a little part of me that isnt satisfied with him because he isn't a christian. He understands how I feel about MY faith and thinks it's great, but doesnt seem like christianity is something for him. I dont believe in changing people you're dating. I always say if there's something you can't live with then they're not right for you. You shouldn't try to change them cause you could screw them up for person they're supposed to be with. If you truly love them then you'll accept it and maybe come to love their imperfections. I dont want to change him. I want to marry him. but I dont want an atheistic husband. To stay together I either have to change him or myself. Its unbelieveably hard to decide if that is reason enough to break up with perfection.
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