I don't think I'm ever going to be good enough
Posted Feb 27, 2013 by anonymous | 435 views | 4 comments
I'm always worried my boyfriend is going to leave me for someone more attractive...I've seen his ex girlfriends' pictures and they're so much prettier than me. I feel like I can't compete with anyone else, either here or elsewhere..
Commented Feb 28, 2013 by anonymous
I feel the same
Commented Feb 28, 2013 by anonymous
Try to make yourself very stable with your qualities.
Commented Feb 28, 2013 by anonymous
I am not a malicious person, so know that I am saying this just out of honesty: there is definately that possibility. But if he truly loves you for you, which is also a possibility, he will happily stay true. My good friends, who I am coincidently staying with as I type, are a great example. The guy, C, has dated at least 3 beautiful girls. Then he met A. A is considerably heavy. Picture a 211 pound Alyson Hannigan. They have been happily married for a few years now and that's after a rough but brief post engagement breakup. Guys will always think about other girls, it how we are. But guys also want a girl to love and protect. Let him know you are occasionally concerned about it, and don't worry about his response. Just try not to over-compensate your fear by smothering him. That can be a deal-breaker even if he loves you! Good luck, hun!
Commented Feb 27, 2013 by anonymous
You can't think that way. If he picked you then there must be something about you. You can't think that beauty is everything. Cheer up sweety!