i don't know if im gay
Posted Jun 11, 2013 by anonymous | 399 views | 2 comments
the deal is i like justin bieber's music (well some, not all) some BTR music also, i watch disney channel and nick but also Mtv i love scary and comedy music. i am 19 by the way. But most of all i some times look at man and say wow he's good looking but like never would think of kissing any man EVER!! i love women like crazy but sometimes i am just confuse, like why would i think men are good looking sometimes. i have never ever would want to kiss a man NEVER EVER!! so i just want to know is that like homo? couse like really it grosses me out seing to man kissing (i dont wanna offend any gay or homo) i just wanna know.....
Commented Jun 11, 2013 by anonymous
Firstly it doesn't matter what kind of media you are interested in, I know gay people whose tastes range from death metal to opera. More importantly the only thing that can make you gay is being sexually attracted to other men, this is true whether or not you may choose to act on it, or even if you resist those feelings and have sex only with women. That said if you are sexually attracted to both, then you are bi, and or possibly pan sexual. All that said, no matter what you are it is okay, and nothing to be ashamed of, and trying to force yourself to to be or do something that you are not is not recommended as it won't change anything, and may only cause yourself problems in the future.
Commented Jun 11, 2013 by anonymous
Being gay has nothing to do with what shows you like to watch or what music you like. It's fine to think a guy is handsome. I'm straight and I've noticed that some other guys are good-looking. It's just something that happens. It doesn't mean you're sexually attracted to them. The same thing happens to me with women. Sometimes I see a girl and think "Wow, she's really pretty," but I don't really have any sexual interest in her for whatever reason. The only real deciding factor is if you're actually turned on by the same gender. If not, then you're straight, If you are, you're gay. If it's both, you're bi. There's nothing wrong with any of them.