I crave older men
Posted Jan 1, 2013 by anonymous | 611 views | 11 comments
I am a 19 year old girl and since I was about 14 I have been attracted to men in their 40's/50's. I've been feeling really guilty like it's wrong, I don't think anybody else my age wants older men like I do, but now it's worse. I've started having feelings really badly for this particular guy in his late 40's, he's so kind and protecting and I find my mind wandering to thoughts of us having intercourse together and other such activities, but it's worse me thinking about him than about other 40/50 year olds because, well, because he's my dad, not my step-dad, my real dad. I daren't tell anyone and I'm only putting it on here because nobody will ever link my name to it.
Commented Jan 18, 2013 by anonymous
This is the confession writer btw
Commented Jan 18, 2013 by anonymous
Really?? Older men actually would want to, to quote from one of the above messages 'totally do me' and 'would love to treat me like a princess'? Thanks. All those worried about the dad thing, don't, I may want him but I'm not stupid enough to go after him in that way. The only older man I have ever had a relationship with was nasty to me, he just wanted my body and didn't love the inner me, he hurt me badly. I feel I need an older man as a partner but I am now terrified to actually approach any in that way now because of this experience.
Commented Jan 7, 2013 by newday55
I'd love to be with a woman like you.
Commented Jan 4, 2013 by anonymous
i WILL DO u TOTALLY !!!!!!!!! fUCKING MEATLOAF..... AHAHAHAHAHAH
Commented Jan 3, 2013 by anonymous
Don't feel guilty about older men. You're a young adult. Attraction is attraction. It might be a phase. It might not. You may simply appreciate guys with some emotional maturity and life experience. I'm in my mid-40's myself and am always flattered when an attractive young woman takes notice of me. I have to admit when I was in my teens and twenties, I was almost entirely clueless about women and didn't know how to give myself to them as a man. While I am not attracted to all young women today because they are young, there are a few I've met in their late teens and early twenties that are simply glorious, and they'll be glorious when they are older too. I would love to make love to them on every human level.
Commented Jan 2, 2013 by anonymous
Stop the relations like that.
Commented Jan 1, 2013 by Amber
Definitely don't get involved with your Dad like that. You'll regret it. But liking older men is perfectly fine. Don't worry; everyone has their own type.
Commented Jan 1, 2013 by anonymous
totally agree! do not mess with your Dad. your relationship will never be the same.
Commented Jan 1, 2013 by anonymous
By the way, I had a similar problem - as a young guy, I always went after older women (though not my mum!). I often wondered if this was strange, but I enjoyed older women's more mature attitude, and that they knew exactly wanted in bed. This lasted until I was about 40, then suddenly younger girls looked much more attractive... Now I would get much more excited by a cute 19-year-old like you, and be pleased to pass on the benefit of my experience. I guess what comes around, goes around! Just have fun!
Commented Jan 1, 2013 by anonymous
You really don't want to fuck your Dad. It will fuck up your relationship for the rest of your life. Be careful, because if your attractive and you come on to him, he might find it very difficult to resist your advances. If you look around, you will find loads of attractive older men, all of whom will be more than happy to get into bed with you ... The difference is, you can dump them when you've had enough, and move on. You can't do that with your Dad.
Commented Jan 1, 2013 by anonymous
There's plenty of older guys out here who would love to treat you like a princess, and indulging all your fantasies!