Yeah, I'll admit, we can be pretty dense and stupid, especially when it comes to realizing that something is our fault. However, everybody deserves to be happy. I also disagree with you saying that it's not as easy as saying I don't want to be married anymore. Actually, it's exactly that easy, and that is exactly what you have to say. Going about it any other way just makes him believe that there is hope, and a chance that things will be okay. I could tell you my story, but seeing the way some of these fucking idiots on here berated you for expressing yourself about your slug of a husband, they'd go ballistic over what I would share. I wish you luck, and you really do need to seek out your own happiness. Life is way too short to spend with the wrong person. Just because you made the mistake of thinking (at one time) that he was your Prince Charming, doesn't mean you have to stick around once you find out that he's just a frog after all.

Ah hahahahah. This is just to funny. Sad but funny.

I agree your a worthless fucken whore that should be stoned to death. Emotional affair bitch you should of thought about that before you went and got married. You selfish worthless bitch. This is your husband by the way you left computer open.

With this sunny disposition I can't for the life of me understand why your wife would behave in such a manner. God bless the woman who left your pathetic ass.

I did and he ignored it. Getting out of a marriage isn't as easy as saying I don't want to be married anymore.

I can't begin to say the level of hatred I have for you. Fess up already! My ex wife of 26 years pulled the same shit on me but was too much of a coward to tell the truth. So rot in hell bitch! I hope cancer ravages your cunt. Fuck you!!!

excellent comment. I totally agree.

Not being up front and honest with him about what he is not providing for you is part of what made you seek it somewhere else in the first place. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that it's all your fault, but if you don't tell him what is lacking (even at the risk of hurting his feelings), then the problem can never be resolved. On the other hand, if he's the type of guy that will let his ego get in the way of hearing what you are really saying, then you need to cut and run now before you end up taking this "emotional affair" to the next level. Everybody deserves to be happy, even if it means that there are some tears shed in the process of getting there. Lay it ALL out there for him so that you can always say that you gave him every chance to fix what was wrong (I'm sure you've heard that we guys are "fixers"). If he doesn't take up the challenge, and provide what you need, then don't stay in a relationship that you are not happy in. That's not fair for anybody. Then seek and find someone that can give you all the things you need and deserve.