husband and boyfriend
Posted May 23, 2013 by anonymous | 355 views | 9 comments
I'm twenty three, I got married august nineteenth twenty twelve to a guy I was with for like three years. two days after we got married he told me to leave. I left, moved, met someone, after months and months I finally gave in and had sex with this guy. I've only known him since September of twenty twelve. my husband has had sex with lots of girls during our seperation. well I got pregnant. I'm fifteen weeks. the boyfriend and my husband know. my husband is still in love with me and I'm still in love with him. I'm not in love with this other guy. I don't want his baby. I don't want to be with him. he is violent controlling and scary. he has threatened me more than once. i considered abortion. but couldn't afford it. I'm now considering adoption. although the boyfriend is super stoked about the baby. I feel disgusted to be carrying his first born. my husband is hoping I give the baby up as well. also. I have a three and a half year old daughter, her father is down with giving this baby his last name just not signing the birth certificate and treating it as he treats our daughter so I'm sort of debating on keeping the baby now. I just really need someone I can talk to about this mess I'm in. so please feel free to leave me your honest advice and opinion. please and thank you.
Commented May 24, 2013 by anonymous
Hey u read My confession its called weed obsession, and commeny please
Commented May 23, 2013 by anonymous
do what? I'm not following. please explain
Commented May 23, 2013 by anonymous
Thou shall not judge. Go back n read your Bible before u point fingers at others and end up in the same place.
Commented May 23, 2013 by anonymous
I'm not going to kill it.
Commented May 23, 2013 by anonymous
thank you.
Commented May 23, 2013 by anonymous
Wow. Sounds like you have used up just about all your options. I don't have any advice for you other than to take one day at a time. Good luck to you, Missy.
Commented May 23, 2013 by anonymous
have the baby! how dare you! your going to hell ifyou kill your babyi hope you have 20 miscarriages if you ever try again!
Commented May 23, 2013 by anonymous
we are discussing it. the problem is that communication between my husband and I is tough right now. I'm in Oklahoma he is in Florida. he is in jail there. I told him while he was in jail. we talked about that one phone call then he sent me a post card and I wrote a letter. there are no more minutes on his account to call me and there isn't anyone on his books yet. thank you for responding. I really need unbiased input from people about this situation and I greatly appreciate it.
Commented May 23, 2013 by anonymous
keep the baby. move back with you husband?