How to tell him he is not the father
Posted Apr 15, 2013 by anonymous | 843 views | 25 comments
This is an opportunity to come clean about something I did a few years back that I have never shared with anyone. First of all I am 33, I have been married 11 years and I have 2 children. I do not consider myself to be a knockout by any means but to paint a picture for you, I am 5'7 I have reddish blonde curly hair to the middle of my back, blue eyes and an athletic body. Now this particular incident I am talking about happened about 4 years ago now and it has stuck in my mind ever since. It was early spring and my husband was going out of town on business. One of my friends had asked me to go out with her on a friday night to which I said if I can find a sitter, I would do so. With a little luck I was able to talk my parents into taking our daughter over night so I was able to go out that night. Her and I met for dinner and eventually ended up going to a club we used to hang out at when we were younger. Well, to shorten up a long story, most of the people there were new to us but there was a few old faces we remembered. One of them was Derek, an old highschool boyfriend of whom I dated prior to my husband. It didn't happen right away, but after some time he approached us and we began to talk and reminisce about old times. As it turns out, a good friend of ours was having a little party that night at his house and Derek invited us to go there. I was hesitant at first but eventually agreed to stop there for one drink. Once at the party, that one drink turned into more and my head was soon spinning. My friend and I had gotten split up at the house and I kinda stayed by Derek given I didn't know anyone else there. Derek had always been the flirty kind and with the help of the alcohol, I was giving it right back to him. Before long, Derek and I were alone in one of the bedrooms in the house. We were sitting on the bed and we started kissing and next thing I knew he was going down on me. It did not take him long to undress and move in between my open legs. Not to cut out the details, but before long, Derek was making love to me on the bed. I'd like to say that after he finished the night ended and I went home, but that was not the case...... Continue or stop with the story? You decide?
Commented May 3, 2013 by anonymous
Unlike many here I'm actually glad you were able to have that experience. Your ex seemed to elicit a deep seated need in you. My only concern was that if one doesn't have that same level of sexuality with their long-term mate to me it's the same as cheating on them. No guy with any amount of self-respect wants to be a caretaker for a woman's past. He wants to be an equal partner, completely equal and share in the same intense sexual experiences as you had prior to meeting him. If that same level of sexual desire is not there you really do not belong together.
Commented May 2, 2013 by anonymous
This place is FULL of assholes. Why would you ever post something so personal here? Keep the rest to yourself and write this off.
Commented Apr 17, 2013 by anonymous
I'd totally fuck you. Always wanted to fuck a slut, just once.
Commented Apr 16, 2013 by anonymous
Amen!!!
Commented Apr 16, 2013 by anonymous
yah this is pretty fucked, up i am understanding to a point where if it was a case of date rape ok shit happens but for you to actually get fucked by six different guys in one night , and you have no idea who the father of your child is disgusting to me i hope your husband wakes up and realizes what a whore u are i hope that child doesn't look even remotely like your husband so that he realizes what a whore you really are
Commented Apr 16, 2013 by anonymous
agreed!
Commented Apr 16, 2013 by anonymous
Wowwww i feel sorry for your kids and husband you nasty slut. I wouldnt touch your nasty self w a 34 and a half inch pole. *pukes* Oh and to the guy you told to fuck himself...well at least he wont be fucking a disease ridden pussied hoe like you who doesn't even know who the father of her child is. Yuck hoe yuck!
Commented Apr 16, 2013 by anonymous
nasty whore
Commented Apr 16, 2013 by anonymous
Touching a nerve and just simply being a dumbass are not related.
Commented Apr 16, 2013 by anonymous
Hmm I see I touched a nerve here.
Commented Apr 16, 2013 by anonymous
Oh sorry, when I started to tell this story I did not realize you finding me attractive was such a huge concern to me. Do me a favor, if you wish to comment in a negative way to any post you see in here, before you do, take a moment to go fuck yourself!
Commented Apr 16, 2013 by anonymous
That's a great story. One question I have is that do you have that same kind of sexual thrill now with your husband and if not why not? Maybe it's just me but the way you worded your story tells me hubby is nothing like Derek or his friends and your sex life with hubby while fulfilling to some degree pales in comparison to having sex with a houseful of strangers. People who hold back and repress true desires from their life partners are not attractive to me at all.
Commented Apr 16, 2013 by anonymous
details I want details!!! please :D
Commented Apr 16, 2013 by anonymous
Yes of course u wouldn't do it if u didn't like it. Did u have sex with all six? Have u ever done it again after? So hubby doesn't suspect a thing huh
Commented Apr 16, 2013 by anonymous
I wouldn't have done it if I didn't like it.
Commented Apr 16, 2013 by anonymous
Wow 6 guys! Sounds like you had your fantasy come true, did u like it?
Commented Apr 16, 2013 by anonymous
Why you stopped. Please complete your story.
Commented Apr 16, 2013 by SweetLilCasey
I did things with 6 different guys that night.
Commented Apr 16, 2013 by anonymous
How many guys u sleep with that night? Sounds hot : )
Commented Apr 15, 2013 by newday55
Continue please.
Commented Apr 15, 2013 by anonymous
tell me more
Commented Apr 15, 2013 by anonymous
And then what happened?
Commented Apr 15, 2013 by anonymous
Well I have not told him yet and I have no plan on. Fact of the matter is, I wasn't just with my ex bf that night. Word quickly got out that there was a half naked chic in one of the bedrooms.
Commented Apr 15, 2013 by anonymous
And, about the subject of your confession, don't tell him if he's not the father of your child/children. By the way, are you a bit slutty? If so, I've always wanted to have a fling with a married, slightly slutty woman, and you sound delightful!
Commented Apr 15, 2013 by anonymous
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