If you want to keep your family, than the best thing you can do is tell him you know, and that you want to stay together. I am sure that he loves you as his family, and that is nothing to sneeze at. You should tell him that you understand that he has needs that you can't fill, and because you want to keep your family you are fine with what he does on the side, and you must be honest when you say this, because if you try to guilt him or tell him to stop you are going to lose him. Now that said you have needs too, that he needs to keep on fulfilling, or he needs to be just as okay with you getting them met. no this may not be conventional, and some people may say it is wrong, but if there is love in your family and you all can be happy then I think it's worth making it work.

You have to talk with him, accept the fact that he's gay and unfortunately let him go if you really love him. The relationship isn't healthy for the both of you and your both only going to end up being miserable.

Unfortunately hun, you gotta face the facts on this. He's gay, he probably knows that you know. You got talk to at some point, if you wait too long too...it's only going to hurt you more & cause more damage...

Cheating got nothing to do with sexuality. If he's truly gay he should not marry you at the 1st place or already divorce you. The fact if he is gay, how much you love him will not change the fact because mentally and physically he can't accept you. If you decide to stay with him, most probably it will be 1 sided and slowly you will be eaten away with sadness and depression. Feelings and emotion can be overwhelming in short term, but I think you should think long term and your future. A saying, don't walk straight to the wall knowing the wall will not avoid you. You avoid the wall. End this and move on with your life.

How stupid are you? REALLY fucking stupid.

Let me know what you think