How do I even react..
Posted Mar 14, 2012 by anonymous | 1062 views | 10 comments
Well, i'll just try to get straight to the point. My ex boyfriend is always coming to me with these weird fantasies. I mean, they get pretty strange. From his foot fetish, to wanting to wear my clothes, to wanting to fuck animals or act like a poor animal while I punish him. I never really got freaked out by what he tells me, I always kind of accepted it & fed into his weird obsessions. I'll admit, all this weird stuff is just different & kinky, I like talking about it. He's never boring & it's fun. But, recently he came to me with an idea that I just feel uneasy about. He first talked about roleplaying as the 'daddy' while I was the little girl & he would give me the 'sex talk' & teach me how how everything worked. I went along with it because I didn't see the harm if it was just us. He then started talking about actually doing stuff to a child. & for the first time, I felt sick to my stomach. He wont stop talking about it & it scares me. Yeah, I like wierd things, but i never, ever want to see a child go through this, no matter how much I love role playing it, id never wish this upon a little kid. Idk, I feel guilty because I haven't told anyone. I don't know what to do.
Commented Apr 15, 2013 by anonymous
The kiddy stuff is weird, sick, and twisted. But did you ever let him fuck your feet? Just curious...
Commented Mar 19, 2012 by anonymous
If you don't want to be around him anymore, it's pretty simple... Just go find somebody else. As for the boyfriend, maybe if he meets a victim of child molestation then he'll see another side of it and stop fetishising.
Commented Mar 17, 2012 by anonymous
how about you shuddup? im not being uptight. thats why alot of little kids have to grow up with a story to tell & a horrible memory that never goes away. grow up. atleast i know right from wrong.
Commented Mar 17, 2012 by anonymous
I have asked him up front, but he says he doesnt wanna talk about it. its just..weird. i never thought he'd want this.
Commented Mar 17, 2012 by anonymous
yeah, tell me about it. i dont even wanna be around him anymore.
Commented Mar 17, 2012 by anonymous
I don't know why you would be even joking about something like that....
Commented Mar 17, 2012 by anonymous
quit being so uptight, people are born with different sexual orientations. i like kids too
Commented Mar 16, 2012 by anonymous
that's a pretty disturbing fantasy. I'm a guy, and I am pretty disgusted to even hear that. I can't believe he actually gets off to something like that....dead serious...
Commented Mar 15, 2012 by anonymous
Just tell your boyfriend that you doesn't like the act of role playing like that & you have find yourself uneasy to do it. Hopefully he will understand it.
Commented Mar 15, 2012 by anonymous
i too like to role play a little, and have many kinks, so this isn't coming from a place of judgement. have you told him how uncomfortable you are with his sudden interest in paedophilia?? maybe he's just tranferring the role play with you to real time talk...as in, he's talking about a child, but imagining it's you since you role played it for him. it happens sometimes and is nothing to worry about if he really does want to have sex with an actual child, then i'd be worried. but you definately need to ask him up front and honeslty about it.