Holding me back
Posted Apr 21, 2011 by anonymous | 487 views | 4 comments
Ive been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. I really want to move out of the place we have together (he moved in with me) and get something bigger. I dont feel that he is ready for that change, he says he is and i know what you are thinking who am i to judge what someone is ready for. He doesnt act like he is ready he cant even help around the house. I dont want to be stressed out more then what i am . i feel that if you are in a relationship you need to support eachother and respect eachother yet i am doing everything. He cant keep the house clean, he cant even brush his freaking teeth or pay his own bills...........i feel that he is holding me back and i honestly really just want to move out by myself and get a couple animals. i feel i am further in life then he is and i am ready to make more changes.
Commented Aug 30, 2011 by anonymous
Fuck him off...he's a loser !
Commented Apr 21, 2011 by turbo
i have to agree with my friends here. it sounds like the both of you are moving in different directions. let us know how it goes.:)
Commented Apr 21, 2011 by anonymous
yeah, if you think he is not the type you have been dreaming of or wanted. then you got your answer. maybe no need for animals, since you will need to take care of them, so you might just move out, relax and rest. the life will tell what it has planned for you
Commented Apr 21, 2011 by anonymous
I think you already answered your own dilemma. You are at different places in life. You're more mature and ready for more. He's content where he is. I suggest you move on alone but keep dating. Perhaps it will be the nudge he needs to step up and really show that's he's capable of keeping up. Staying together in this situation will only breed resentment.