he calls out his late wife's name during sex
Posted Mar 2, 2011 by anonymous | 178 views | 1 comments
I'm in a beautiful relationship with a man who wants to marry me. My life would be perfect were it not for the fact that in the most intimate moment of making love he calls me by late wife's name. He lost her a few years ago after a long and happy marriage. I have been widowed for seven years. He says he doesn't understand why it happens. I am very upset and wanted to complain somewhere.
Commented May 25, 2011 by anonymous
He still misses his late wife and apparently needs more time to get over his former relationship before assuming a new and healthy one with you. Talk to him; let him know you love him but that you can't continue to be intimate with someone who's already 'taken' or emotionally unavailable. You sound like a wonderful woman and you deserve to have a committment unencumbered by your friend's loss. It'll likely be tough for him for a long time but he needs to understand that you're prepared to love deeply, completely and you expect the same. It's not an unusual or unreasonable request either.