
Hate this life
Posted May 6, 2013 by anonymous | 324 views | 13 comments
I hate this miserable life I have that everyone thinks is just the most perfect life a woman could ever need. My husband Rick and I have been together for over 17 years now and he is a miserable asshole and verbally abuses me every chance he can. I work and have 2 kids which he expects me to pick up after and him too. He doesn't lift a finger and expects that I should be his slave. His little friends come over and laugh and act like cavemen. My family has told me already they will not help me if I try to up and leave him because I made my bed and to lie in it. Just because I have a big house and an SUV does not mean I am happy!!!!!!
Commented May 16, 2013 by anonymous
walk away if yoyr not happy u can be getting treated like queen
Commented May 10, 2013 by anonymous
hello honey!!!!!
Commented May 9, 2013 by anonymous
I say have a summer fling, an easy breezy affair. He isn't treating you right and believe me being married to another man is strangely appealing to other men, you probably won't have any issues finding a willing partner lol go for it and have the fun you deserve. Even if he starts to suspect you have something going on he might just clean up his act for fear of losing you....
Commented May 9, 2013 by anonymous
Well maybe you don't think you want to have an affair, but believe me, an affair would make you much happier. When marriages get like yours, a well planned affair (when it is the WIFE having the affair) will actually save a marriage.
Commented May 7, 2013 by anonymous
I do not want to have an affair. My husband was not like this when we got married at 19 he was a very fun man to be around . Well, I guess you can say we were both kids at that time. Now it seems we are very different people and he has begun to become violent and more violent over the years. Never has hit me but has grabbed/shoved me against a wall and also yelled into my face /
Commented May 7, 2013 by anonymous
OMG, you're the husband?
Commented May 7, 2013 by anonymous
You choose the wrong guy & now you're paying for it. Lesson in life; PICK THE RIGHT GUY
Commented May 7, 2013 by anonymous
I think you should have an affair, really, I am not kidding. Check out "Ashley Madison . com" and see if you can find a man who will put the spice back in your life.
Commented May 7, 2013 by anonymous
life is too precious to waste being unhappy. Leave him, you'll work out the details when you need to.
Commented May 7, 2013 by anonymous
You have get the life only once & you have to live it to the utmost.
Commented May 7, 2013 by anonymous
Excuse me ma'am? Hi I'm Linda. pleased to meet you. I was in your shoes when my ex husband had girlfriends galore while he was married to me. When I complained... he shut me up.... There is a program that could help you alot... infact 2, to let you know this is a suggestion only ok?? alright... the first 12 step program is www.codependentsanonymous.org or coda.org that program gives you healthy relationships with yourself n with others. You have a chance to set boundaries for yourself.... this program helped me to grow up in two and a half years. Its been a blessing for me too. I can now get along with my mom alot better but we have our good n bad days. it may not take one meeting so keep coming back to that program if you wish. The 2nd one is al-anon.org i think or .com?? yahoo or google it for yourself. al-anon is for the family of the alcoholic/drug addict but no one is never turned away if your husband is clean of both addictions. I highly suggest you try both or one of them and IF there is no in person meetings there are phone meetings. This will help you ma'am I know it from my heart n soul. I'm Linda, I'm definetly co-dependent, email me for any concerns: ilovepadrepio68@gmail.com.
Commented May 7, 2013 by anonymous
I think a lot of woman get stuck in relationships that they are not happy with. I myself have done it before, I stayed in a relationship with a man for 8 years even though i knew he did not make me as happy as I knew I could be on my own or with someone else. Your the only one who can change your life for the better, you have to realize your own self worth. if you want to get out of your relationship it will be hard, but it's not impossible.
Commented May 6, 2013 by anonymous
Does he call you a stupid fucking bitch? Does he call you a lying whore? Does he call you a lazy slut? Does he call you a skanky loser? Hmmm, I thought so.